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Old Jun 20, 2011, 01:30 AM
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I don't know if this was the place to put this but I do want Womens opinion on the subject.

My bf has loved my open-mindedness in the bedroom but now he's asked for something that I just don't know.
He'd like to see me with another woman. Though the idea is hot, I do not see myself doing that.

What I wanted to ask if anyone has done it and it was ok. Or anything at all.

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Old Jun 20, 2011, 07:55 PM
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Hi,
My husband wants that too. I'll go along with it. I've been with women before. But never in a threesome. I don't know how it would be with feelings involved. I would hate to be in the middle of it and start crying or something! We have tried to find another girl since last year, but no luck.
I think if you set rules before you begin, it should go OK.
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Old Jun 20, 2011, 08:00 PM
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Hi,
My husband wants that too. I'll go along with it. I've been with women before. But never in a threesome. I don't know how it would be with feelings involved. I would hate to be in the middle of it and start crying or something! We have tried to find another girl since last year, but no luck.
I think if you set rules before you begin, it should go OK.
The crying is exactly my fear. It wont be exactly a threesome. He wants to be in the room while we go at it.
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Old Jun 20, 2011, 08:41 PM
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I don't know if this was the place to put this but I do want Womens opinion on the subject.

My bf has loved my open-mindedness in the bedroom but now he's asked for something that I just don't know.
He'd like to see me with another woman. Though the idea is hot, I do not see myself doing that.

What I wanted to ask if anyone has done it and it was ok. Or anything at all.
I am very open minded in the bedroom - i do things with my husband that I never thought i'd do before.
I also know he's been with 2 women at one time before he met me.
I think it's hot as well - but that's where I draw the line. I think I'd freak out either during or after....and i'd never be able to take it back or forget it....
If you want to do it, you should, but for you, not for him. you make all the rules....
Thanks for this!
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Old Jun 20, 2011, 10:00 PM
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Don't do anything you are not 100% comfortable with. It's your body and your mind, and your emotions. You need to protect them all. Don't let yourself be talked into anything that you are not totally comfortable with. It's about respecting yourself - not just pleasing your BF.

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Old Jun 30, 2011, 02:03 PM
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I'm also a very open minded woman in the bedroom. Quite frankly, your boyfriend ought to be grateful you are as open minded as you are, and not push his luck!

Your limits are your limits, you should stick with them. splitimage has it right. Good luck!
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