Aggravated

I have been really aggravated and irritable lately and I do not know what to do. I know that a lot of it has to do with my stress for procrastinating in college. Also, my boyfriend had cheated on me and I found out a few weeks ago. We broke up and now we are talking about working on our problems , but I do not know. It is hard to trust him or even open my heart to him again after that. I have just been in a constant bad mood and I hate it.

You deserve better. Someone you can trust & feel content with.

People who cheat just don't do it "only once" and did he have safe/protected sex with this other person?

Wish you only the best.

You need to ask yourself if I take him bk will I hold it against him our whole relationship, will I end up destroying our chance to be friends even by not being able to trust him again and then spend the whole time checking his facebook account or hotmail or phone and driving yourself mad thus pushing him in2 the arms of another woman cause he thinks well if she is accusing me of it I might aswell be getting bollocked for something and actually cause him to be unfaithfull or you end up wanting to hurt him like he has you and you do something and he dumps you and wont take you bk though you took him bk. It could go a number of ways I say stay friends and If he wants you he will bloody fight to be with you and if he doesnt then he aint worth you and you WILL find some1 who will. but dont do that hoping that he will be jealous cause 100% it will blow up in your face, good luck you are not alone honey!

Thank you everyone. I just hope I make the right decision.

I had a similar situation a yr ago. I took my boyfriend back (after cheating) & I found him to be very remorseful & sorry, but it was ME that couldnt get past it. The trust was gone....like gone gone out the window, I questioned everything! I was losing my mind. Oh and when we got in fights, guess what's the very first issue that popped up?? Yup. Cheating.
I'm not saying your situation will be like mine. But keep in mind if you go back. It RARELY is the same as it was before...
Oh and end of story...he DID end up cheating again!

I hope you feel better soon and make a decision that's good 4 YoU!

That's what I am afraid of, but I can't be with him and constantly think about that. I am worried that I will constantly think about it and push him to do it again. Anyways thank you for sharing your story

No prob . I hope you make a decision that's best for YOU! Keep us updated if you'd like
((hugs))!

I will , thanks again