does size matter

im making this poll for a friend who is doing an article and the topic is does penis size really matter.. take the poll if u like and u can also leave storys or other comments about the question.

the option of just no isn't there but no. not if the guy knows what he is doing. sex isn't just about intercourse. there is much more to it.

Yeah I didn't have a good option for me either. I've never enjoyed sex as much as I do with my boyfriend. He's largely endowed but theres a level of love there that hasn't been there before so I don't honestly know what makes it so great with him, his size or the love. I've had decent sex in the past, but I have so say that in this case, his size helps as well as the level of love and caring. So I couldn't vote. I hope I never have to experience anyone else, but I don't know how it would be if I did, if they were smaller....after having my bf.....I hope that didn't get too graphic hahah!!!!

I didn't like the options either. There is way more to it than that. I did have a boyfriend who did his best, but he was really, really small. It's not that it wasn't satisfying, but it was just confusing because I couldn't always tell what was (or wasn't) happening. My husband, who I love more than my life, is bigger than is comfortable for me. So even though most people assume that the "does size matter" refers to small sizes, big sizes can be a disadvantage too.

So yes, size does matter but it would never be a showstopper for me.

Does SIZE matter for sexual pleasure........ YES

Does SIZE matter for deep emotional Love......... NO

i have had some bigguns and some tiny ones and they both accomplished the same thing so im going with no. plus too big just hurts. lol. maybe im just lucky in where my nerve ending are located haha

I have to say that I have had a boyfriend with a member so small that you had to concentrate about where it actually was (if you get my drift). I have never had a well endowed man. I think that is best as I would think it would hurt one of my uterine ligaments. I lke a penis to be of average size but with some girth. There is nothing worse than having to ask "Is it in yet?"

Rather Amused,
Peacemaker

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I like a penis to be of average size but with some girth.

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I agree........................................

Girth is Good - Real Good

Tee hee!!!!!! My man is very well endowed. Its been difficult though lately, because I enjoy it so much with him, yet its been 2 months now.

I almost wish I could go back to not liking sex. It was easier than missing the good stuff.

what about for us tight girls? lol i would have thought that after 5 years it wouldnt hurt anymore but it definately does every time. and my ex had quite the girth and i couldnt even stand it. i didnt even want it half the time because it hurt so bad. my boyfriend now is seriously perfect. i was always scared that when i met the guy i knew i wanted to be with he'd be tiny. lucky me

Doen't really matter- it's the tongue that matters- the rest is just - well sex...lol
4 play is best and if he can't u can.....

imo... weather its the tongue or the penis....its not the size that counts... its how they use it.

i think there's alot more to a relationship than sex. so i think for me personally, no it doesnt matter. pleasure isnt everything.

My boyfriend is quite *ahem* large and as long as we use lube the sex is great. i'm only little and he isnt so without lube it can be painful, but i wouldnt change him for the world.

size matters to me.

if it's to big it hurts and if its waaaay to small there's no satisfaction.

I'm with gypsy ..... but i'm lucky enought to have a well endowed hubby lol .......

Yes, there can be too much of a good thing!
My XBF used to rip me and I'd bleed, in the beginning. I got used to it, but it never was REALLY comfortable. And I've had even bigger...Told one guy he'd just have to put that thing away 'cause it wasn't going in HERE.

The guy I've got now is PERFECT. Big enough so I can feel EVERYTHING and small enough I've got room to breathe!

I think if it's just a one night stand and it's just to satisfy the urge then no. if it's for a committed relationship and both partners are willing to do other things than no... however if a woman likes a larger %#@&#! then she should be comfortable enough to let her partner know this and they should consider introducing toys into the mix.

at first my response was no... its all in how he uses it... BUT, then after reading a few posts I got to thinking... I wouldnt want one that was too big that it was painful and not pleasurable... And I also would not want one that was too small that I didnt know if it was in there or not , again not satisfying.......

So my final answer is , YES size matters...

no size does not matter to me

biggest factor of good sex:

foreplay

I like being prepped up, loved, felt.. touched, feeling the intensity, leading up to sex

my fiance does it half the time, but when he doesn't, it's just in and out

I had a big big guy once, it was good and he liked me... but.. nothing compares to having sex with someone you love, than just... having sex. but if I was single, I would go for decent or even big, it's in a spectrum really. not too small, small-medium would be good too, but I want foreplay gah

Only does it matter if the guy has a really, really big penis, so that it is uncomfortable, or if it is really small, so you cannot even feel it. Everything in between is okay. My husband is about average, and it works for me. Really, the foreplay and stuff while you are having sex makes it better. Different things are exciting for different women.
I cannot usually get off just from having sex, anyway. He will have to go downtown or use some sort of toy, or else I will. All actual sex does is get me turned on. For hub, there are many ways of relief. Sex, oral sex, or he or I playing with it. I do not particularly like my husband to get off first. He loses interest.

I do not think I have one of those G spots.

My favorite is if we have plenty of time to mess around with no danger of kids running in. I like for him to mess around and have his mouth and hands all over me. If I can get close, and then back off, and repeat that a few times, when you can bear no more and go for it, trust me, your pleasure will be much more intense and long-lasting, I kid you not, I damn near saw stars, and put claw marks all over. I was one horny beast!

But for the vast majority, the variation in size is not that much, and unless it is extraordinarily big or small,its going to be fun. And don't trust it if a guy looks like he doesn't have much when he doesn't have a hard on. Sometimes, it gets a lot bigger! Lol

My high school sweetheart was very big and I enjoyed myself, but my husband is average and I enjoy it just as much. On the other hand I've been with some tiny ones and if ur so tiny I can't feel u that's a problem hahaha. So I would say yes and no.

I definitely prefer the look and feel of a more substantial penis, but the poll offers me to vote on whether my parents had an influence on my becoming borderline. I am actually not even borderline, I just prefer bigger sizes!