what is it about men that....

sets you off? in a good way! lol. i know for my boyfriend, i absolutely loooove his broad shoulders and toned chest. i couldnt care less about whether he has abs or not. plus he has such a pretty boy face people think im robbing the cradle haha

hmmmm light touches. slight open mouthed kiss. doesn't have to be tongue action. lol kissing in the bend of my arm.

Good hair!!! Great sense of humor and wit. Intelligence. The ability to debate and think psychologically. The ability to wrap his arms around me and hug me so that I feel incredibly safe, like nothing could ever possibly happen to me. Stylish dresser.

The higher the IQ the better......
Taller than me !
Large er (you know what) is important to me.
Nice legs.
Likes to have a laugh over things.
Can take control when things go wrong.(normaly caused by me)
Patient with children (very very important)
Broad shoulders.
Clean shaven.

animal lover is a huge one for me. im in zoology so if he is afraid of animals or isnt compassionate. cant do it. plus, you can tell a lot about how a man treats people by the way he treats animals.

I like?

Confident
Strong
Taller than me
Larger than me
Facial hair is a good thing and chest hair (I may be the odd ball here but I grew up watching Tom Selleck)
Better know how to give and take directions by North, South, east or west.
Can handle the fact that I too can change a tire and enjoy it.
Lets me be independently dependent. lol

true that!

i grew up in a house with 4 brothers and my dad. and it makes guys feel un-manly that i can do just about everything around the house and they cant. i wish it wouldnt. i cant help that ive put on roofs before! lol

facial hair is only good on some guys. some guys just cant pull it off no matter how hard they try.

chest hair is good for the following reasons: to pull out when theyre not expecting it or to pull out when theyre being mean. the same reason why nipples are good. you can twist them when theyre being a jerk lol

OMG. . . that was funny!! I hadn't used chest hair in that fashion myself. It just seems extra masculine and makes rubbing a chest that much better.

Chest hair is good (NOT too much-- no gorilla men, please) My husband has just the right amount... and I love, love, love, love, love goatees with beards.

my boyfriend is almost 24 and still has little patches on his chest haha. he can grow facial hair fine but his chest seems confused. like his pecs are arguing with each other "i want the hair!" then "NO! I want it!" and they just cant find a happy medium.

Got to agree--I love chest hair. Also a good crop on the lower arms is highly erotic to me. I also like beards but am OK with smooth shaven too or merely stubbly . (I do not like the "smooth chest" look on adult men--sometimes they wax their chests. This makes them look like adolescents to me, and I like a man, not a boy!)

my dh is very hairy! I would like to be able to kiss his chest though without getting a mouthful of it sometimes lol.

bebop - yeah - its nice to look at but not very useful. itd be nice if we could stare at them... then when we wanted to touch them we could just peel it off. then put it back on when were done haha.

hahahaha yup. he also has patches on his back that we call the forest and at times it itches him bad. lol he says "honey can you please scratch the forest?" lol

I absolutely love it when a man is two heads taller then me. It's difficult though because I'm relatively tall for a woman. My husband is about a head in a half. It makes me feel petite and feminine when he towers over me, height wise.

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Been there Done that - and it just didn't seem to be the right time to ask for dental floss -

It's all about the look in their eyes!

babyg xxx

hahaha rhap

rhap - the hair doubles as dental floss. haha

I like the practicality. The focus on doing stuff in the world. Helps bring me out of my head. I like the showing you care by doing things to show you care aspect to guys. The 'words are cheap and actions are where it is at' mindset. I like doing things alongside my bf. Kind of hanging out together and words aren't really needed. I like saying things that help him feel good... I like him saying things that make me feel good. Kind of talking through stuff and feeling understood and cared for.

I love it how sometimes he reminds me of a little boy. Quietly hopeful. Or proud of something he has done. Brings out my nurturing aspect (which is well hidden at times lol). I love it how he is taller and bigger than me. Makes me feel feminine, yeah. Helps me feel safe and protected. I wish... He was a little better at letting me (or even his cat) win playfights, though. I tell him that if he ever has kids... He better let them win sometimes...

I love it how I can talk to him. That he is in touch with (and comfortable with) his feminine side. That he doesn't feel like his masculinity is threatened... So he doesn't engage in over-compensatory behaviours (there is little that is more unappealing to me than guys who seem to be acting butch because... They aspire to be butch). There is an aspect of the 'caricature of masculinity' in that as there is an aspect of the 'caricature of femininity' in females with hysteria. I love it that he aims to be... A decent human being. As do I. That we have that in common.

Oh gosh this is so difficult for me. I never have had a "type" of man. I have dated jocks, nerds, effeminate guys, VERY masculine guys... every type of guy really I think. (wow that makes me sound sort of loose doesnt it? )

Here are things I like.

I like a man who is gentle, but not to the point of being oversensitive. I like a man who is not afraid to be a man when I need one (like when we are in bed at night and I think I have heard a noise downstairs and am too afraid to go check) and not afraid to be gentle when they need to (like when they think noone is watching and they pass out with the baby or the cat all cuddled up) That to me is a real man.

I have been attracted to SOME strength in the past.. although to be honest I do not personally find myself attracted to very large muscles. In fact, I love when men have a little bit of a belly - Its divine to lay on when watching television while getting your hair stroked.

I like how men balance me too - they provide the yin to the yang if you know what I mean.

and of course there is the obvious

i like a man who is comfortable enough in his manhood to get caught feeding racoons (who tear up the trash) cat food cause they look hungry. is scarey enough to have actually made some horrid boy my daughter brought home at the age of 15 pee his pants without trying to be intimidating, and sweet and cuddly enough to be adored by his daughters and grandchildren (and me) he is 45 years old and still has barely any chest hair. and he love and appreciates me enough that after 20 years of marriage he still thanks me every nite when i fix him dinner, and means it. and who doesn't understand why i am scared of the whole world, but will staand beside me and make me feel safe when ever i get up enough nerve to leave the house, with never a complaint. that is my idea of the perfect man.

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