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#1
Apr 05, 2008, 02:30 PM
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i know its not uncommon to feel..... well... kinda horny at that time of the month......! i have been with my current bf for 18 months now and we have a wonderful sex life.............. so in tune its amazing.......... but we have never had sex at my time of the month........... he has intimated that he wouldn’t mind, but i have never really felt comfortable with it............ well the last two months especially i feel so horny its hard not to........... i don’t know why i don’t ya know.................. its just kinda messy right?! god............. i so want to........ but something stops me................ and im not sure what.............. is it normal to want it so much now??????? im 29 and this has never really been an issue with past bf’s.............. but then i have never felt this connected with anyone before....... what do people usually do? just wait a few days probably..... lol............
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#2
Apr 05, 2008, 02:35 PM
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Personnaly I wait I find the idea a real turn off ...
Hubbys thought on the matter are....I really dont mind it is not a problem for me. Maybe its a man thing ? |
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#3
Apr 05, 2008, 03:35 PM
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It doesnt bother me and it doesnt bother hubby.... I guess its all with what you are comfortable with....
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#4
Apr 05, 2008, 07:40 PM
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doing it in the shower can be pretty good. not messy :-)
otherwise i'd reccomend putting a towel or something like that down on the bed. i think... it is a little icky... so... shower i reckon. or a quickie on a towel or something (if your flow is light it really ain't so messy at all). but the shower, yeah (keep coming back to that one). |
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#5
Apr 05, 2008, 08:18 PM
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thats why they invented towels. lol. just dont go in with the thought "i cant get pregnant on my period" if youre not using birth control already. thats a big mistake. as far as messiness goes. you know how heavy you are at whatever times. and as long as you dont get too creative with it, just put a towel underneath you guys and it should be okay. but if youre not comfortable with it, dont do it. but theres only one way to know if youll be okay with it or not.
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Apr 05, 2008, 09:58 PM
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Sometimes it is cool to do other stuff. Oral sex on him and on you after a shower and a tampon in if you are uncomfortable with doing intercourse while on your period. Or he could just do manual stimulation on you too. Sex can feel incredible, stronger orgasms too.
I remember once my DH said he was okay with it until he saw himself afterwards with the lights on , it kinda freaked him a bit to see blood all over his thing . lol
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#7
Apr 05, 2008, 10:20 PM
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I definitely would go with the shower!! I like to have sex when I am at that time of the month. It took me 2 years to want to, and to feel comfortable with it. The first time I did was in the shower, and my hubby is perfectly happy with it that way too....less mess for sure!! But if you don't want to do it in the shower, you can go ahead and shower first and get cleaned up (refreshen....lol) and then do the towel thing like what everyone else is saying on the bed. that way it's not AS messy.
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#8
Apr 06, 2008, 03:11 AM
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I agree the shower is the best place to have "time of the month" sex. But if you do use the bed grab a big thick towel.
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#9
Apr 07, 2008, 12:09 AM
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We never had a problem, just lay down a towel and take a shower afterward.
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#10
Apr 07, 2008, 11:30 PM
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I say go for it in the shower or during one of your slow days IF the feeling hits you...... as it usually does for me right before or during that time of the month.
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#11
Apr 07, 2008, 11:59 PM
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to me it was always better during that time of month! thick towel on the bed then shower right after. go for it!
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#12
Jul 23, 2008, 07:52 AM
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Sex at "that time" is awesome!! you'll be that bit tighter and its abit naughty so it feels great for both. bit of advice; put a towel down and get him on top.
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#13
Jul 23, 2008, 01:55 PM
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Try it in the shower very hot and it is great. You will love it. It all gets washed away. You maybe getting more showers sonn HUH.
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