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May 23, 2008, 10:12 AM
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Im sorry if I go into detail a bit, I must admit Im a bit embarrassed to say this but what the heck. Recently I've noticed that whenever me and my boyfriend have sex, I have an area on my lady bits that gets really really sore afterwards. I'm not sure if theres a name for it (its the stretch of skin on the outside beneath the bit that he enters you in), but its that sensitive afterwards that it stings to touch and I feel like I cant have sex for at least another day or two afterwards. I don't know whether its because I'm only young and I have such a small body that it gets a bit tight down there or what lol  all I know is that its horrifyingly sore and its starting to put me off a bit. Which is not good!Does anyone else have this problem? babyg xXx
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May 23, 2008, 11:49 AM
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We are all sensitive down around that same area from time to time and the discomfort can happen at any time - rather you are new to sex or have been having sex for forty years.......... IMO - I would say that this problem has a lot to do with friction - the rubbing that leaves us female feeling any thing but sexual for a day or two after we have had sex. BTW - this could also be a lubrication problem if you body is not making enough on its own..... if you think this might be the reason to your discomfort just try some good old KY Jelly the next time you have sex...... I have heard they have a new Him/Her KY Jelly that is supposed to work wonderfully together. |
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May 23, 2008, 12:58 PM
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I too was going to suggest a lub problem. I had that happen when I was young too.
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May 24, 2008, 09:35 PM
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i get that sore feeling on a certain part too. It happens.
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#5
Jun 06, 2008, 10:28 AM
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could be due to a few different things
- lubrication. especially if condoms are being used. KY or something like that could help. - allergy. weird... but some women can be allergic to the sperm of a particular guy. - infection. thrush etc. a doc could rule this one out... if i haven't had sex in a while then when i start i think the alteration throws out my ph balance or something... takes my body a bit to adjust... |
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Jun 06, 2008, 12:36 PM
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it could be a matter of position as well, try changing it just a little.
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#7
Jun 06, 2008, 03:23 PM
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I think that bit is called the fourchette. (Sp?) I just went to the dr. and found out that I have basically a papercut on between my labia. Maybe you have something similar, but there?
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#8
Jun 08, 2008, 04:13 PM
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i have that also. i guess at first i was just too tight. so i would tear during sex and have to wait a few days for it to heal. it would sting very badly but now after a few years that doesnt happen anymore. it could be the friction deal or maybe youre just not "broken in" yet lol.
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