Wanted:

One good man.
Someone who is relatively good looking.
Must love animals and children.
Should care about others and be willing to volunteer and stand up for what he believes in.
Should love a wide variety of music.
Must know how to cook, and be willing to help keep house.
Should enjoy watching movies and tv, and not that sports or girly stuff.
Someone who has a religious/spiritual side to themselves.
Must accept/tolerate my family
Should know how to hide money and other things from me.
Should love chocolate and be tolerant of my mood swings.
Must be accepting of me on my bad days.
Must love me for who I am, even when I can't do the same for myself.
Has to have a sense of humour.
Can't be a computer geek, or any sort of weird geek.
Must have a job, or willing to get one beyond "part time" in the future.
Preferred - some sort of post-secondary education, college or university.
Must enjoy fishing, hockey, and be willing to spend time with his guy friends - leaving me the heck alone (sometimes).
Must be tolerant of my NOT drinking alcohol, and cannot be an alcoholic
Non-smoker, non-drug addict

I want someone who can make me laugh, make me cry for a good reason, who makes me feel loved. I want someone to spend time with me, and also to sometimes leave me alone. Someone to give me a hug and just hold me sometimes. Someone willing to talk, someone willing to listen. Someone who will be there when I need them to be. Someone who can accept my oddities and my personality quirks. Someone who can at least accept that I come from a broken past that I dislike and try to get over every day. Someone who can argue with me without hurting me. Someone who won't abuse me. Someone who will let me sometimes be a kid, and sometimes let me be where I am at emotionally. Someone I can trust with my hopes, dreams, fears and failures without laughing at me. Someone who tries to know who I am, and not who I portray myself to be.

All I can promise is the same as I've written. (Minus the cooking, I really do suck at cooking, but I'm willing to learn if taught).

Let me guess, I'm dreaming. I just want ONE good guy who loves me. All I've attracted are creeps up until this point. I'm only 22, it shouldn't be this hard!

Wait...can you make that 2 good men??? I need one too. And I'm 39!!! Mine can like sports, though.

So very sorry girls but I already have him and he is a one off ......

What you talking about Tishie? He's mine!

Not to worry, Can'tStop; I was 39 when I got married.

So there IS hope!!

Yes, there IS hope, Cant and Christina!

I'm almost 47 and have had only jerks in my life, until I decided to try online dating back in 2006. I was afraid I'd spend the second half of my life alone, but now it looks like I won't. At least I've been with my guy for almost 2 years now, and he's the best thing that ever happened to me.

I understand, believe me. Hugs to all women out there looking for a decent man.