[Dove]

I don't know how to deal with the angry feeling at the moment, cause sometimes at work or other circunstances I can't avoid crying, and I hate to cry, I don't think that men happen for this! so I think that it's a disadvantage for us! And I hate it!! I don't know how to control it! Can anybody know how to deal with it?
Thanks!
Dove

[Rhapsody]

Don't beat your self up to much over how you deal with emotionally situations.... as it has been said many times over that -

* Women CRY when they are Upset

* Men get ANGRY when they are Upset

So over all you are doing what comes natural for you as a female, and with that bit of info you will be better able to control your emotions as you age and heal from wounds that control you from with in.

[dancerrox]

i totally know how you feel! When im really pissed off about something I just start to cry and i hate how it makes me seem weak cuz im really not, i think its just a way how your body handles anger? i dont know how to handle it either i just wanted to let you know that i have the same issue

[bananasarecool]

i get this too - especially if ive been keeping everything in. ill just suddenly burst into tears at one little thing.
my advice -
find an output for all the bad feelings youve got and stuff thats happened. dont keep everything bottled up.
remember that it is ok to cry. its completely natural

x

[sunrise]

Tears are filled with stress-related molecules, so when you cry, you are getting rid of them and helping lower your stress level. So even though it's frustrating to cry when upset, I guess, biochemically, it helps manage stress.

[_Katie_]

Originally Posted by Dove

I don't know how to deal with the angry feeling at the moment, cause sometimes at work or other circunstances I can't avoid crying, and I hate to cry, I don't think that men happen for this! so I think that it's a disadvantage for us! And I hate it!! I don't know how to control it! Can anybody know how to deal with it?
Thanks!
Dove

I think most women are just more sensitive and crying can be a good way to release your feelings. I know where you are coming from , I have done the same thing....then thinking am I the only one that cries??...I mean think of it as you could be doing something worse...you know... taking a deep breath would help me at times, and to focus my mind on ok, I am not gonna cry, I am going to say what I want to say in a rational way, and not cry.. It can work for you.. but hey, if you do cry, dont feel badly, its not that unusual in my opinion for women to cry.. I hope I have helped you on some degree... Katie

[EnglishMajor]

I know exactly how you feel! There have been just a couple of times when I've gotten so angry that I burst into tears. Once was when Pep Boys caused damage to my car after supposedly doing repairs on it (including, but not limited to, replacing the battery). Can you say $800? They failed to connect a fuel line back to the tank. I picked up the car and started filling up with gas. Gas gushed out beneath the car, and fire department had to be called to hose down the mess. I went back to Pep Boys screaming, shaking, cursing and crying like a maniac. I wish I could have been more in control, but I totally lost it. At least I scared away some potential customers and got a refund.

[BalishBun]

I wish I didn't cry every time I get frustrated or upset. It makes me want to cry just thinking about it.