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Old Dec 27, 2018, 07:04 AM
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I'm sorry you're feeling lonely, William Munny I'm glad you're doing ok. Feel free to PM me anytime. Merry Christmas! Sending many hugs to you
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Old Dec 27, 2018, 04:16 PM
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If this happens on a regular basis, I think you should file a report. You have the right to work in a safe place.
I completely agree! You have the right to feel safe.
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Old Dec 27, 2018, 04:17 PM
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Maybe just puff your chest next time and tell him to shut up and just do his effing job?
Straight to the point. How about gathering evidence against them?
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Old Dec 27, 2018, 04:18 PM
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Because then OP would be considered a bully also...not good.
That true. What about filing a lawsuit against the company?
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Old Dec 27, 2018, 04:19 PM
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Could be a matter of semantics? Asserting the desire for harrassment to end is assertiveness and not bullying.
If the person has time to be harrassing then clearly they are not being productive employees.
I agree outline where they are in the wrong
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Old Dec 27, 2018, 04:21 PM
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lol, I've try'd that, It did work for a short time. only problem with me being assertive is I find it hard to be proud of who I am.

He's someone with a beautiful wife, cute kids, lots of friends, and finds it fun to aggravate ppl. He know's everything about me, and knows how to use it against me.

I just keep to myself more then I did in the past, Don't have anyone I could call a friend. The last girl that talked to me was over a year ago, and I don't see that changing for me anytime soon. I know it, and so do my co-workers.

And Thanks I enjoyed reading your comments, They made me laugh, I don't know what I'm gonna do yet though, I don't want to do them any favors by quitting, but I don't wanna stick around with ppl I don't like.
Have you thought about using what you know against him.
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Old Dec 27, 2018, 04:22 PM
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I hear you about not wanting to quit, but not wanting to be part of such a work environment. Financial security matters afterall. Maybe the power reclaim comes in the not giving the guy aggregating you the pleasure of quitting? Maybe his storybook life isn't all it's cracked up to be? I recently watched a video segment on handling bullies. It went in a different direction of deflection. I'm pressed to remember the examples off the top of my head right now. Was reverse phychology at its core. Eventually it resulted in nothing to come back and attack with from the bully.
Have you been keeping your resume current in case something better comes along?
It sound like a great idea to keep your resume up.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 05:50 AM
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It sound like a great idea to keep your resume up.
I've tried finding other jobs but nothing in my area is good for me. I owe a lot to my employer...He's good to me. It's hard dealing with ppl when your so different from the them. Just something I'll always deal with. I can't defend myself when guy's make fun of me for not getting laid. I'll alway's look like the outcast, Especially at my age.

Just wish I had of done thing's different in the past and I wouldn't be in this situation.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 10:05 AM
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I've tried finding other jobs but nothing in my area is good for me. I owe a lot to my employer...He's good to me. It's hard dealing with ppl when your so different from the them. Just something I'll always deal with. I can't defend myself when guy's make fun of me for not getting laid. I'll alway's look like the outcast, Especially at my age.

Just wish I had of done thing's different in the past and I wouldn't be in this situation.
I understand I was the outcast because I wasn't dating and sleeping around. My sister spread bad rumor about me because of her jealousy of me because I could do her job better than her.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 12:49 PM
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I read posts like this and I become LIVID. I had a hard time through school because of immature idiotic kids. There is no excuse for this in the workplace. THIS is but one reason I avoid most people at all cost. The working world is hard enough on its' own. No one wants to be there, and it should be as peaceful as possible. Not getting "laid"? What is this? A HS locker room? No one with an ounce of decency would even THINK of another person's sex life. I don't, because I don't care. This person may have a wife and kids and such...but if he is doing things like he is doing, he is NOT fulfilled. I am very happy with my life most of the time, therefore I don't give a rip about anyone else's activities or lack thereof. If things were that bad for me at my job I would have been fired long ago for brawling. ( I have come close, actually) I can't handle that garbage.
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Old Dec 30, 2018, 04:10 AM
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Fighting is the only weapon I have in those's cases, but even if I fight and win I still feel like I'll have less in the world. Nobody care's about me enough to text me like everyone around me get's texted. It's embarrassing, I just sit quietly and don't talk to anyone. And they know I'm lonely, just don't have any heart I guess.
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Old Dec 30, 2018, 10:33 AM
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Fighting is the only weapon I have in those's cases, but even if I fight and win I still feel like I'll have less in the world. Nobody care's about me enough to text me like everyone around me get's texted. It's embarrassing, I just sit quietly and don't talk to anyone. And they know I'm lonely, just don't have any heart I guess.

I sit alone on breaks and so does my closest friend at work. We are very close, but we are both loners, so we are not yapping at one another every minute. I play on my tablet and I am content. He has a fancy phone, so he plays on that and is content. However, that is our choice. We push people away by nature. You, on the other hand, seem to WANT friends. If we worked together I'll bet the three of us would get on well.
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Old Dec 31, 2018, 04:33 PM
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I read posts like this and I become LIVID. I had a hard time through school because of immature idiotic kids. There is no excuse for this in the workplace. THIS is but one reason I avoid most people at all cost. The working world is hard enough on its' own. No one wants to be there, and it should be as peaceful as possible. Not getting "laid"? What is this? A HS locker room? No one with an ounce of decency would even THINK of another person's sex life. I don't, because I don't care. This person may have a wife and kids and such...but if he is doing things like he is doing, he is NOT fulfilled. I am very happy with my life most of the time, therefore I don't give a rip about anyone else's activities or lack thereof. If things were that bad for me at my job I would have been fired long ago for brawling. ( I have come close, actually) I can't handle that garbage.

Oh man you should see how it is at my student job.

I work at the community college and the president of it is disliked by our department greatly. He spends all this money on expensive furniture for 2-3 rooms (one being his office) when many of the classrooms still have those old crappy plastic chairs.


Like the guy spent almost $300,000 on one room complete with a dedicated back entry for catering all to have meetings in it. He expects us to swap big heavy 300lb tables in and out of storage every time there is a meeting because the president doesn't like having "empty" seats.

It is so bad my boss was talking about smashing the president's tables with a hammer and his boss transferred to a different department. Oh and my friend that works full time wants to come up with a sledgehammer and light said sledgehammer on fire and trash his room LOLOL
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