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Old Mar 10, 2008, 12:05 PM
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day one today.
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Old Mar 10, 2008, 01:41 PM
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(((((((((CHALMETTE))))))))))))

YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!!!!
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Old Mar 10, 2008, 05:55 PM
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day one today.

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It is always only "one" day chalmette...and in that one spin of this Earth,,,everything is possible...

As you know.

See ya tomorrow...

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((((Chalmette))))

Nothing wrong with starting over - I've had to do it more than a few times myself. Alcohol is tough to give up. But Lenny's right we only have to do it for one day at a time.

What can you learn from what led you to drink? and can you think about what you might do differently next time you're in the same situation of have an urge. They kept telling us in treatment to look at a relapse not as a failure but as a learning experience.

Hang in there.

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I am glad you decided to make this day one--PM me if you need/want to...I am always here for you. Hang in there my friend.
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Old Mar 10, 2008, 10:43 PM
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Thanks for having faith in me. but i already screwed up today. It aint day one again.
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Thanks for having faith in me. but i already screwed up today. It aint day one again.

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That's ok. It can be minute one. Or moment one.

Every little bit counts. And I know you can do it.
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Chal, you can do it. I have faith.

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Old Mar 13, 2008, 04:04 PM
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Chalm,

You can do it. You're a strong woman. You can be stronger than the alcohol. It's a tough addiction to beat especially if you're trying to do it on your own. I've had many failures and had to start over many times, before I got any decent sobriety in me. So learn from the experience and start over.

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Old Mar 19, 2008, 10:36 PM
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I havent had a drink in 4 days and last night flushed what dope i had down the toilet. I am tired and frustrated, but i am going to try to quit again.
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(((((Chalmette))))) we are all routing for you..u can do it...

Prayers are with you...one day, one hour, one minute, one sec..
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(((((Chalmette)))))

Kudos to you for the flushing!

Like ziggy1 says. One sec, one min, one hour, one day, YOU CAN DO THIS!

We're behind you 110%!!!!!!!!
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Old Mar 20, 2008, 03:22 PM
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(((Chalmette))))

I know it's hard. But just keep taking it one hour, or less, at a time. Feel proud of yourself for starting over, you've taken the harder but better option. I'm cheering for you all the way up in snowy Canada.

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Old Mar 20, 2008, 07:37 PM
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chalm,

you might find this song inspiring!

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The whole worlds broke and it aint worth fixing
Its time to start all over, make a new beginning
Theres too much pain, too much suffering
Lets resolve to start all over make a new beginning
Now dont get me wrong - I love life and living
But when you wake up and look around at everything thats going down -
All wrong
You see we need to change it now, this world with too few happy endings
We can resolve to start all over make a new beginning

Start all over
Start all over
Start all over
Start all over

The world is broken into fragments and pieces
That once were joined together in a unified whole
But now too many stand alone - theres too much separation
We can resolve to come together in the new beginning

Start all over
Start all over
Start all over
Start all over

We can break the cycle - we can break the chain
We can start all over - in the new beginning
We can learn, we can teach
We can share the myths the dream the prayer
The notion that we can do better
Change our lives and paths
Create a new world and

Start all over
Start all over
Start all over
Start all over

The whole worlds broke and it aint worth fixing
Its time to start all over, make a new beginning
Theres too much fighting, too little understanding
Its time to stop and start all over
Make a new beginning

Start all over
Start all over
Start all over
Start all over

We need to make new symbols
Make new signs
Make a new language
With these well define the world

And start all over
Start all over
Start all over
Start all over ...
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