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May 15, 2006, 06:13 AM
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Since cummin ere i av tried to get to no people and i have to a degree!i have mede one or two decent friends who will talk to me,but they are popular people, and they spread themselves about thinnly i no! i have posted in the forum about myself and my mental health problems and no one has bothered to reply really,yet i check the forums everyday and see other topics rackin up the replys,this is a support site isnt is???why does no seem interested,it makes me feel a bit stupid and makes me wonder wether its worth postin or even bein ere at all!!!!
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#2
May 15, 2006, 06:37 AM
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(((((((((((((((siwarp)))))))))))))))
i some times dont get any reply either i put this down to the time of day i post as im in the uk and most ppl are in the us my posts quite often get missed , but just writing them helps me as sometimes i have nobody that i can talk to and putting things down helps me cope
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#3
May 15, 2006, 06:44 AM
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i see what u sayin but even still i cant help but wonder, i worry all the time about what people think of me and how they view me,its classic 4 someone with SAD. so it does get me down when no one replyz, particually when it took me a few weeks of bein ere b4 i ad the ballz to post,it was quiet deep stuff two, oh and my post as ad a 100 views with 5 replyz,all from the same person????? people read and do not reply- how rude!!!!!!!!
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#4
May 15, 2006, 09:35 AM
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try posting in other areas this might get ur name out there , ppl will respond but sometimes they wont if they dont reconise u , i only noticed u were in the uk after i replied , u r welcome to pm any time , while io can be online im going to make the most of it
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No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
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May 15, 2006, 09:35 AM
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((((( siwarp ))))) Sorry you feel like that. We all have problems, we ARE here to support each other. I know anxiety is very distressing to cope with. Maybe you could venture out of the anxiety forum and join in with some of the posts in General, or social chat, then people would get to know you. Just a suggestion. Take care.
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#6
May 15, 2006, 01:16 PM
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(((((siwarp)))))
I'm sorry that you feel this way. When I first came here things were very much like that for me. After awhile, I started getting more replies. The more I put our there about myself, my experiences, etc. the more support I seemed to get. Have you thought of getting someone's email address or IM name? I know that after I started emailing and IMing some of the members, I got even closer to these people. Hang in there...PM me if you need to.
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May 15, 2006, 03:41 PM
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Hang in there - YOU are still fairly new to the site - I PROMISE it will get better in time...... the more you post and the more you share.
LoVe, Rhapsody -  
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#8
May 15, 2006, 08:01 PM
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yep thats right.
sometimes it just happens like this. Pretty much any online community I have joined there is a certain period of time where it may seem like noone is responding - alot of times its simply because they dont know you and are just getting used to someone new  Its nothing you have done trust me.The best thing you can do sometimes is to let us know how you feel, which you did! Now that we understand, it should help to bump things along some. |
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May 16, 2006, 02:22 PM
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Hi there. I think I understand a bit of what you're saying. The truth is that sometimes I feel so sick that I can't write or reply to people's post because I am so distressed that I can't seem to find any words to help anyone else. I feel really selfish and bad for not being there much for people.
I like reading the social chat and checking to see if there are funny things there. I also like the poems. I feel real lonely too. Hugs to you! |
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#10
May 16, 2006, 03:00 PM
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Hi Siwarp
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May 16, 2006, 05:18 PM
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No one replied to my post either. Argh.
I'll talk to you if you ever need someone to talk to
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As I hide behind these books I read, while scribbling my poetry, like art could save a wretch like me, with some ideal ideology that no one can hope to achieve. And I am never real; it is just a sketch in me. And everything I made is trite and cheap and a waste of paint, of tape, of time. |
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#12
May 17, 2006, 06:17 AM
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You your self said it took you weeks to get up the courage to write that maybe why people maybe reading and not responding after that. I can Not imagine that there are close to 10,000 of us here, and there are just a certain number that post at all, I bet it is a supper low percentage, another thing I picked up was that some forums are not viewed as this one say, I was hving kinda of down fellings then I saw that people have there fav places to read and they reply more there, agin it is not cool but look at numbers in say GENERAl and HERE, I hope yopu all get more contact, PM me and just write away!!!!!!!
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May 17, 2006, 11:13 AM
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((( si )))
No matter what's going on with me, I always have time for you. You are a special person, and I care about how you feel. I'm sorry you didn't get a lot of responses, but there are times when people don't really know how to respond. I know I get that way sometimes. Just try to hang in there, and keep posting. The people here do care. Please PM me or e-mail me or IM me anytime you need to. I'm here for you. Jenn
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#14
May 17, 2006, 11:44 PM
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well thank you to all those who replied,i guess i will hang on in there,i do see what ya all sayin,thanks again
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