[Butterfly_Faerie]

Why is it that anxiety creeps up on you for no reason? I'm sure that something triggered it otherwise it wouldn't happen.

I don't feel as comfortable in my house anymore, I do but it feels different.

I use to think of my house as my safe place, as long as I was inside I was fine. Anxiety would fade, now it doesn't really.

I find being with my boyfriend, even just being in his presence and at his home I feel fine.... Even if I am panicky ( which is rare ) or just anxiety ridden a bit because i've worried to much all my BF has to do is the simpleist of things and I feel fine.

I know alot of the anxiety is brought in by worry, that is for everyone I think isn't it?

I know how to control it, that's not really the problem here, I want to know why it pops up so often and why can I not really pinpoint the exact reasoning behind it?

I can pinpoint now if I get any anxiety, (my bf is going on a trip for 4 days) so that may cause me some anxiety, but other then that .. what's the reasoning?

It can get so frustrating at times....

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[romansxii19]

Unresolved personal tribulations, e.g. wants, needs, desires, childhood trauma. Cacophony tempests of FEAR, percieved personal vulnerabilities, rejection, betrayl, indifference and apathy. Confiding in others for your emotional health, it's a hell of a lot easier for someone other than ourselves to relieve our own weighty burden. Hell, I could be totally wrong, but the Holy Grail is very near.

"What comes around, goes around"

[Butterfly_Faerie]

whoa this post completely through me for a loop, I'm lost.

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[(JD)]

Welcome Romans.... interesting text you have chosen for your s/n, perhaps we can discuss this later on?

Yes, personal traumas, big and little, can cause the anxiety to "pop up out of nowhere" but of course it does come from something, doesn't it?

And, if I read you correctly, you say that having someone else in your life, to whom you can direct, or place our security upon, is easier than bearing this ourselves? If that's what you mean, I agree. Having someone else for security feels nice for a while eh?

Certainly many things are very near "closure."


<font color=blue> meditation is a true way to connect to the Source </font color=blue>

[SeptemberMorn]

Um... yep, Hun. Some people seem to be talking in riddles. I understood it and I'm not sure I like it. It doesn't belong on this forum.

So, don't worry about it, ok? Someone else will have an answer that you can understand. This one was too way out for most anybody here...

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

[Butterfly_Faerie]

haha thanks SeptemberMorn
it is confusing, but it isn't directed at me, if so, I don't care.. lol doesn't effect me in the littlest bit.. it's all good...

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[SeptemberMorn]

Hey... did I tell you I just love your signature at the end of your posts? Way to go!

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

[Butterfly_Faerie]

haha you mean the saying under my name?

Yea that is a postive thing... I have it usually for all of my sigs.. I had another good saying but it was too long

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[SeptemberMorn]

Could have sworn that I had answered your last post, but I guess I didn't. Hmmm...

What I thought I said was "why don't you share that saying as a post all it's own?" Heaven knows we need more positive thinking around here!

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

[Butterfly_Faerie]

you lot me sept

What do you mean when you say, why don't you share that saying as a post all its own?

You mean the one in my sig and the one that wouldn't fit?

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[Butterfly_Faerie]

ahh crap i don't have that saying anymore I don't remember where i got it.

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[SeptemberMorn]

Well, Hell's Bells! LOL Yup, I meant the long saying you had. Oh well. If you run across it again, maybe you'll post it.

I "lot" you? hehehehe Just razzin' ya! You sound like a fun person.

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

[Butterfly_Faerie]

Here go again, I'm axious today, it sucks and my boyfriend forgot to leave me the phone when he went to work, he is does 12 hour shifts now so I wont see him untl 8.

I hate not having a phone, so if I have to call someone I have to walk out to Kelsey's to call, ARGH!!!

I had anxiety off and on last night, this sucks [frown}

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>