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Apr 27, 2007, 03:26 PM
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hey do any od you guys have people around you who are jerks because they want to put you down for no reason i have a brother who was talking about something inapropiate so i told him that was gross and to talk to me when he was more mature he kept talking so my sister said he just keeps talking like you do i saoid to her i have adhd i tend to do that its not like i can control it so my brother said it's not an excuse i said yes it because i talk about things that interst me not things that are obscene and unapropiate it just made me angry that they make me feel like i'm a 5 year old not able to function like an adult especially my sister and i'm older then both of them i wish they would back off ..
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Apr 27, 2007, 03:41 PM
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I'm not sure telling him he was being immature is the best way to get through to him.
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Apr 27, 2007, 03:55 PM
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well i 'm looking at this and he is here he said tell everyone on pc that we are all dumb and to get a life maybe i was to nice to him telling him he was imature
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Apr 27, 2007, 04:10 PM
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Maybe...?
Maybe his just trying to get a rise out of you...? I know my ex's siblings were good at that. The dumb part is a bit of a sting. Yes, it gave me a rise. But at least we are not ignorant like he appears to be coming across. I've seen too much wealth of knowledge collectively at PC that he obviously is ignorant of what goes on here...
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Apr 27, 2007, 08:31 PM
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I recently had an incident with my step mom that left me angry and hurt. She accused me of things I never have done...but she is so sure I did. I let her rant...told her it wasn't me....let her carry on more...I sat and cried...listening. Finally she said she felt better...got up...and left my house. She felt better but for a few days I allowed her to hurt me emotionally. This isn't the first time I have had encounters of this type with her and probably not the last one. I decided to pick and chose what battles I will fight...and this one isn't worth it.
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Apr 27, 2007, 11:10 PM
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what are the ages of you and your siblings?
in all honesty, if your brother is acting in a way you dont like, you should just not be around him. worrying about him and how rude he wants to be is not going to help you with anything that is going on. You should just try and put time and space between the two of you and leave it at that. worry about yourself first.. stick in there, sometimes family can be pains. but that time will pass |
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Apr 27, 2007, 11:54 PM
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thank you so much for ur advice he is 16
i did'nt think i was wrong but i was too ! but thanks for letting me know we need that sometimes
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