twin problem

hi.. i hope you could help me with my problem. this is my first time here..
i am blessed to have an equally pretty twin sister. however, the problem began when we reached our early adult stage.. the story goes this way. i had a boyfriend right now. when he was just woeing me, (my sis didn't know about it) my sis told me that she had a big crush on him... i was really kinda falling for the guy, so i accepted him as my boyfriend. one nigh, when my boyfriend and i went on a date, he mistaken me to be my twin sis. he thought that we were switching. he even has some cases of calling me with my twin's name. from then on, i feel so anxoius if is it me he really loves. he told me he does and he is even proposed marriage! but i don't believe him. i cant bring myself to believe him... but i love him so much that i can't afford to lose him. help! what shall i do...

if it doesn't kill you, it'll make you strong
<div class="foot">(Edited by charlane on 08/18/04 01:20 AM.)</div>

HI Charlane,

I have an identical twin sister, I haven't had that problem with her, even though one time I liked the same guy she got when we were younger.

If you are really worried about this, bring it up to him, or maybe talk to your sister is well. If this is really bothering you then talk about it and get your answers.

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Welcome Charlane.....

Since you are twins, you are probably very much alike... and he might like you both! But I sure wouldn't get too much more involved until I was sure which he liked MORE LOL maybe a discussion with your twin in also in order?

Hope the site helps you... come back and post often, ok?

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thanks..

the thing is, i can bring myself to talk to my sis about the problem. i dunno why im feeling this way. i know it's not right. but i really cant help it. for me, keeping it to myself means security... or i don't understand anymore. with this kind of conflict i have with myself, i had a hard time trusting him.. but i also love him like hell... i am such a fool..

if it doesn't kill you, it'll make you strong

If you are having trouble trusting him then that is not much of a relationship, there has got to be trust. Maybe you should come out and say this to him , your concern and you want to know what's going on, it might even be nothing, but letting him know what bothers you is important.

You are right what doesn't kill us makes us stronger.

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