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Jun 04, 2008, 02:17 PM
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I'm over anxious and i dont know what to do. I have to go to my friends house soon. she just lost her mum and her dad is very ill. She is falling apart and i don'tknow if i can cope myself. her mum and dad have been like parents to me in the past and i just don'tknow what to say to Stefan to want to stay here with us and not die ...... he is adamant, he wont stay in the hospital, he wont takehis chemo, he just wants to go....my friend is losing it fast,how can i be there for her feeling thisway/ I FEEL SO SELFISH.....I'm goinground there soon, just hope i can keep it together myself......sorry, just had to write something, tokeepme still....sorry kerry
  
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Jun 04, 2008, 02:20 PM
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((((((((((((( Kerry )))))))))))))))))))))
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Jun 04, 2008, 02:23 PM
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How can you appologize for loving someone Kerry?
Do what you must,,,breath deep, turn it over and trust that your presence will ease their pain.. It will... Lenny
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Jun 04, 2008, 03:13 PM
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All will work out (((((((((((((((( jinny )))))))))))))))))))) in it's own way, in it's own time. You are a dear soul to love and care so much. It's important for you to take care of you too.....so keep some for yourself and spread the rest around.....much love to you!
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Jun 04, 2008, 07:08 PM
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jinnyann...I wish I could reach out and give you a hug. It sounds like you are in such a difficult spot. Losing people we love hurts--there is no way around it. Maybe it is not a bad thing for you to cry with your friend--share your feelings with her. You don't have to be the "rock." Although I do understand the desire to be there for your friend. Just do your best--that is all that can be expected of you. hang in there...hang in there.
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Jun 04, 2008, 07:25 PM
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I am sorry, that is a lot to go through.
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Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. R.I.P. Bandit 7-12-08 I love you I miss you. |
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Jun 04, 2008, 07:27 PM
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you know, i really can't express how much i appreciate you all.
today i was going crazy with anxiety. Turns out Stefan is much better than we all thought, he is home, my friend was extremely good tonight and we are spending the day together tomorrow after we cut her dads hedge lol ..... we are baking of all the daft things to do!!!!! but it will keep her mind off things and Stefan was talking about coming on holiday with us!!!!!! I panicked because my friend is sick with grief over losing her mum and i thought Stefan was just giving up, bless him  he still refuses to take his chemo but it is only a precaustion anyway .... his bloods were fine!!!! he is anaemic and has to go to docs tomorrow again .... thankyou so much for caring, it means the world to me ... andi told my friend about you all replying and she is so grateful ..... thankyou, love you all, Kerry xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo    
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