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Oct 31, 2008, 07:21 AM
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Just found out theyhave relaeased him on police bail dont know what to do.want to run and hide ........know where safe its stupid why they let him go they say they protect........l know they wont.........wont be able to ..****...........cant braethe why they do this......why they not lock him up and throw away the key ...........its not fair cant do this too hard..............panic how stop panic we not safe any more..............he will come find and track us down..................oh god where can we go.........i cant do this im not strong enough please someone help us
aaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhh hate it hate it hate it need it all to stop to be over l hate him cant cant cant he will hurt us agaain ned to find sumwhere safe..........ned to hiid theysed it wud not be lik dis they sed safe...................no safe no mor cant di no mor juts cant no mor ned to stpo
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Oct 31, 2008, 07:27 AM
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get off the computer and go find local help mandy, a local fire department has a pad full of guys with time on thier hands, they will help you feel protected and get you to a place of safety... dont delay until its too panicky for you... ... you cant take risks and you cant wait it out... we cant help on this side to protect you physically.. it is something you must do for yourself... you can do it!
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Oct 31, 2008, 10:50 AM
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you can do this make sure his conditions of release are to stay away from you, if not get hold of someone like a solicitor or citezens advice to get you these rights, you should be able to contact victoms suport ppl under the polie they should of given you a card with number on and a case number also you should be able to speak to officer in charge of this case he might of been released on bail waiting to go to court for sentencing stay safe 
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Oct 31, 2008, 11:30 AM
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also do you have a womans shelter?
they are very helpful a womans abuse line? not sure but you maybe able to go stay at one A home for battered woman stay safe muffy |
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Nov 02, 2008, 03:17 AM
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are you okay? keep in touch. but this is not the place for emergency help. call police if you think you need to, don't be shy about it.
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Nov 02, 2008, 04:00 AM
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Sorry everyone this was just mad panic............i'd just recieved a call too say that he had been to court and had been released on bail awaiting start of trial as he has pleaded noy guilty...............so this will force me to have to go and give evidence beingcross examined etc.......but then why am l suprised by this .............l knew he would and l know that he will make this as hard as possible in the hope that l will flip and not be able to proceed................. now know conditions of his bail no contact with me at all , not allowed to calll , visit or harass not to near house or childrens school no contact with me through any family members l still have the house alarm which has a direct fast response to police station so l guess this was me doing exactly what he expected me to do...............not handling it, flipping out, no rational thoughts about it all sorry ........calmer today......but just need to try keep this panic under control.............l know this no place for emergency upport and now feel very stupid and mad with myself to the way that l responded l wont do it again sorry.......... mandyx
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Nov 02, 2008, 04:06 AM
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((((((((((((((((((Mandy)))))))))))))))))))))))))
You were bound to feel scared honey ....... I'm so glad you've still got the emergency panic button .... use it ifever you are unsure ...... you are strong enought to do this .... look at everything you have been through .... dont worry about the court thing just now, build up your strength, you have plenty ....... we are all here for you .... no apologies remember  Love you hon ..... remember... he will be punished for everything he's done ...... love you ..... Kerry xxxxx 
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Nov 02, 2008, 06:10 AM
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((((((((((((((mandy))))))))))))
I'm so glad he can't come near you and don't say sorry... you had every right to panic. Like Kerry said, use your alarm if you need it and try not to focus on having to go to court just now, focus on you! Your health is important. We will be here with sacks of support when the time comes for you to give evidence Take care of yourself hunny and stay safe Molly
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