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Old Dec 06, 2008, 08:51 PM
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I went to a christmas party for work last night. i had a panic attack around people that i know. i was sweating chewing the crap out of my fingers about to get sick everywhere!. people wouldnt leave me alone! it was driving me nuts. i almost started crying because i shouldnt be this way around people i know! they kept pushing me and pushhing me to talk...i just turned into a mute. thank god for my boyfriend who snapped me out of it but then i felt like an *** because of how i acted. i wouldnt eat i wouldnt talk. i cant help it sometimes it just gets that way around people. but why people i know? everyone is starting to make me nervous now.
im so done with this i need proffesional helP!

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Old Dec 06, 2008, 08:56 PM
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I went to a christmas party for work last night. i had a panic attack around people that i know. i was sweating chewing the crap out of my fingers about to get sick everywhere!. people wouldnt leave me alone! it was driving me nuts. i almost started crying because i shouldnt be this way around people i know! they kept pushing me and pushhing me to talk...i just turned into a mute. thank god for my boyfriend who snapped me out of it but then i felt like an *** because of how i acted. i wouldnt eat i wouldnt talk. i cant help it sometimes it just gets that way around people. but why people i know? everyone is starting to make me nervous now.
im so done with this i need proffesional helP!

Lawyer - I can totally relate....I don't do well around large groups of people either....I am on medication, but even still I find it hard to be around many people I don't know well. I hope you find the help you need, because social anxiety makes life really hard. hugs
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Old Dec 06, 2008, 09:35 PM
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I have extreme anxiety even and I would dare say especially around people I know, I usually withdraw to a corner and keep to myself. Sometimes my brain seems to overload in groups and I disassociate, I call that a short circuit. I hope you are able to find professional help.
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Old Dec 07, 2008, 11:16 AM
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the more i started to learn in college the more i wanted to say what i felt and the more i noticed how it killed me to disagree with people and how i felt bad for saying what i felt.
Is this why it is hard to talk to people?
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Old Dec 08, 2008, 09:48 AM
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Is this why it is hard to talk to people?

yeah it is. i know im scared of rejection and everything but i usually dont care what people think. its really weird how it works.
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Old Dec 08, 2008, 12:40 PM
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Lawyer you can come to understand yourself and then make whatever changes that you need...........
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Old Dec 08, 2008, 07:22 PM
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I am very socially anxious too. I have a Christmas party coming up this week. Last year it was at a hotel. I hardly knew anyone and I drank a couple drinks because I was so anxious. I was new at the job and had just started a few weeks before last year's party.

I am a bit glad to find out that this year's will be at a local restaurant, more casual. More people in my department are going this year. I got a Christmas card from one of them.
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