worried !!!

so i have supected adhd according to quizzes, my ex had this and also thought i had. funny nuf i tried one of his adhd meds one night n i felt unusually calm. weird no?
ontop of this i have suspected borderline personality and diagnsed with general anxiety and ptsd. ive got nothing goin don for me ave i?? xxx

omg is this normal? help???

Hi! Are you seeking professional help for official diagnoses? I think that will help.

Actually, some folks have a lot more issues.

I have that ontop of bpd ? I think I have it pretty bad. Just my ex mum was a mental health nurse and decided I could have it too. I worry !!!

I know. I am a worrier, too. I try to remember I could have it worse to make myself feel better, so I was hoping that that would help you. I'm sorry if it sounded like I was trivializing your problems. Yes, you do have a lot to deal with. Certainly a lot more than I do.

Let's see if folks here with ADHD have anything to say.

Are you wondering if somebody could have ADHD along with your other problems? I certainly think so.....

Hope so xxx I need advice !?

Sorry you seem to be stuck with me for trying to help, and I am doing a pitiful job. Please remember that we are not professionals here, but fellow sufferers.

In order to get an official diagnosis, you will need to be tested by some professional who does that type of thing. I suggest you call some therapists' offices to see if they know someone.

My son was in counseling, and his counselor sent him to a special place for testing. (He did test as ADHD.)

Does that help at all? I am so sorry if it doesn't.....

No ur helping xx
Anything is appreciated xxx

I have to wait for my therapist ... April xxxx

Alas, it might be that you'll have to wait. In the meantime, if you want to read more about ADHD, then look at the sticky regarding resources at the top of this ADHD forum.

ADHD can be managed (worked around), and you can try some of the techniques, even though you aren't sure yet if you have it. My son has a 3.4 GPA at a prestigious university, is very active socially, etc. One of the main authors of one of the books that's classic for such problems is a medical doctor. (The book is called "Driven to Distraction.")

I don't want you to worry so much. Okay?

Hey hun, you know you can PM me any time right? I might be able to offer some tips as we're both in the UK