[NuckingFutz]

You all know i am already shaky. I just got contacted by that gf of the psychopath. She bypassed my phone block by using the unavailable feature. She said her boyfriend could not have slept with me because i told him i had herpes!? 2 weeks ago she said he could not have sex with me because i am psychosis... I have neither. I only slept with him one night 2 months ago...and this crap is still going on! I am blocking the unavailable calls and if i hear either one of their voices, i am hanging up! I am also considering calling a hotline if my mood gets any worse. The girl actually offered to listen if i wanted to talk...how sick is that? They can screw with eachother all they want, i will let them screw with me no more. I even looked up psychopath last week and the guy fit the profile. I feel so weak and so crazy right now. Could really use some feedback right now. I have never encountered these kinds of monsters before.

[VickiesPath]

Originally Posted by NuckingFutz

You all know i am already shaky. I just got contacted by that gf of the psychopath. She bypassed my phone block by using the unavailable feature. She said her boyfriend could not have slept with me because i told him i had herpes!? 2 weeks ago she said he could not have sex with me because i am psychosis... I have neither. I only slept with him one night 2 months ago...and this crap is still going on! I am blocking the unavailable calls and if i hear either one of their voices, i am hanging up! I am also considering calling a hotline if my mood gets any worse. The girl actually offered to listen if i wanted to talk...how sick is that? They can screw with eachother all they want, i will let them screw with me no more. I even looked up psychopath last week and the guy fit the profile. I feel so weak and so crazy right now. Could really use some feedback right now. I have never encountered these kinds of monsters before.

Do call a hotline if your mood gets bad. That's what they are there for.

NF, you need these two idiots out of your life. Have you considered calling the police and filing a harassment charge? You could also get an order of protection. Depends on your local laws. But if I was being harassed by telephone by an individual who I have repeatedly asked to not call me, I would report it to the police and take whatever legal action is necessary to get it stopped.

I did do this once with an old boyfriend. It's a pain but it worked. He wasn't fond of jail.

Good luck.

[NuckingFutz]

Thanks. I will check with the police. I just feel so angry! At least i am not doubting my sanity anymore. Guy has her snowed. He even blames his lies on her! I have told her not to call me. But you know, this behavior i will not put up with. I am still trying to get my meds straight after my attempt. If it were not for this board, i would be one scared, self doubting mess. Well, i guess i will starting no contact over again tomorrow with day one.

[danstedak]

Originally Posted by NuckingFutz

Thanks. I will check with the police. I just feel so angry! At least i am not doubting my sanity anymore. Guy has her snowed. He even blames his lies on her! I have told her not to call me. But you know, this behavior i will not put up with. I am still trying to get my meds straight after my attempt. If it were not for this board, i would be one scared, self doubting mess. Well, i guess i will starting no contact over again tomorrow with day one.

Take it one day at a time, but ya you definitely need them out of your life. Try to remember that he is the crazy one and you are the sane one in this ordeal. And if he if having his g/f call it shows how low he is or both.

[thunderbear]

Hey NuckingFutz. I know here in Kentucky, if someone keeps harrassing you over the phone after you repeatedly tell them do not call, the phone company can suspend their phone service for a month. But if they are calling from a cell phone, I don't know what the phone co. can do. I would just call the police.

[NuckingFutz]

Here in tx they need proof of repeated calls. I am not willing to expend anymore energy so after i turn in my phonebill, that is it. I need to focus on me and my healing. At least i know i am not as sick as they are. I know i have support, and goals. I know i can make it through this. But you know, it will be a long time before i try and get to know anyone to date.

[thinker22]

You're right. They're lying psychos and you can only disregard everything they say as ridiculous and made up.

I hope you'll get some relief from them soon. Until then, Only answer your phone if you recognize the caller or someone told you they'd call you right back. Hang up if it's the couple from hell.

And of course call a hotline if you are feeling unwell or unsafe.

[NuckingFutz]

I am okay. I will avoid them at all costs. I think the gf was ok, but i think he screwed her mind up pretty good. He is abusing her everytime she has reached out for help by me and she has not even noticed the pattern. This guy exacts revenge when someone goes against him. Seriously, look up psychopath, he meets the criterion...read it then come back on here and tell me what you think. It is horrifying.

[thinker22]

I keep going in loops, but psychopath seems to mean sociopath which means antisocial personality disorder.

Now I know that term only because that's what the therapist said about one of my relatives (not that I think they'd ever find me on here, but I'm not being specific for a reason).

This person lies to your face and makes other people believe his lies. He also has a disregard for the law and other people's feelings. Thinks if he gets away with something that's all that matters. He can't keep a job because he thinks the world owes him everything. He gets angry and sometimes violent when people confront him about his lies and other behaviors.

Have I pretty much got it? I mean, I couldn't find the definition, but I do know someone with it and this is my description of him.

[NuckingFutz]

You got it. I thought you all would have thought i was crazy. It is such a relief to be validated. No more answering calls unless i know who is calling. No answering the door unless i know who it is. And you know what? I've got my motivation back at least for tonight. I am going out into the world and i am going to get a good job and work hard in therapy and take a break from relationship looking until i can tell the good from the bad. And all this because i wanted some ooh la la. I ended up a long way from there. You all are terrific! One interesting thing to note is that researchers have found is these people do not even have the same brain wave patterns that humans do. Creepy!

[thinker22]

Originally Posted by NuckingFutz

You got it. I thought you all would have thought i was crazy. It is such a relief to be validated. No more answering calls unless i know who is calling. No answering the door unless i know who it is. And you know what? I've got my motivation back at least for tonight. I am going out into the world and i am going to get a good job and work hard in therapy and take a break from relationship looking until i can tell the good from the bad. And all this because i wanted some ooh la la. I ended up a long way from there. You all are terrific! One interesting thing to note is that researchers have found is these people do not even have the same brain wave patterns that humans do. Creepy!

That is creepy but understandable. Makes perfect sense. Definitely time to take care of you.



Goin' to bed...to try to sleep. Oops, I was late on one of my pills. Tonight I'm supposed to double my dose on 2 things. I've gotta sleep!

[NuckingFutz]

I hope you get a good nights rest. I am checking on all the locks and going to sleep.

[thinker22]

How'd you sleep? I got 3.5 hrs, woke up, then 3.5 more. So it's not bad, but I wish I could sleep through the night.

[VickiesPath]

Hey, NF. Keep positive. Wanted to ask: do you have caller ID and an answering machine or voice mail? I thought I read that you have caller ID.

Here in Phoenix we get so many freakin' telemarketing calls that if the name comes up on the caller ID as someone I know or I recognize the number (which is only about 5% of the time) then I answer it. Otherwise, I let it go to voice mail. Most of the time, they don't even leave a message. If they do and I'm here, I listen to it. It's a pretty good screening mechanism. Once my T told me that it takes a lot of self-control to not automatically answer the phone when it rings. I said, no, not really, just practice. My husband is nearly deaf and my son (when he's here) won't answer it. So, I got tired of being the designated home secretary. Anyway, it works pretty well.

[NuckingFutz]

I got a good night's sleep. About 6 hours. My pdoc might have to adjust those because most nights the quality of sleep sucks. As far as my caller id and call blocker, i still have to monitor my calls like you do. I am trying to move forward but i am experiencing a lack of interest in my usual hobbies. I am glad it is a holiday though because i do feel like doing nothing. Tomorrow i work and have therapy. Just feel blah.