[Moose72]

I had a wonderful day until my mom's husband demanded i do somethung like a slave even after i said "im just having a cookie here". He took that to mean i had ststted a revolt and it just went downhill from there. He yreats me wit contempt, usurps anything i do with my kifs and immediately turs aroynd and tells me im a stupud ****. It was about the tome thst he was doing this and loiking doen his nose at me with contempt and smuggness that I totally lost it and screamed at him. I was contemplatubg doing real damage but he decided to leave to get something to drni k - taking "the high road" because im the crazy one. Never mind hes always giving me the same treatment - and i am made out the bad one for erupting finally. So now im evenore stupid crazy etc! So i end up with a hoarse throat and crying and noone to give me hugs and no meds to calm me down. They make me out as crazy to my kds. I want hugs and to not feel i am fighting a battle with myself every day and then have this thrown on me. A deluberate fight picked.

[BNLsMOM]

I'm sorry this happened to you. Would cyber hugs help? (((Moose)))

[Slothrop]

This guy sounds like a real winner.

[Ascension]

I am sorry that is an example of what you live with. The total lack of understanding and compassion from some people really piss me the hell off. G_d forbid he show a little understanding. Don't some people know that if they tried to be a little understanding that would take away a lot of our fear and insecurities out of the equation and then maybe we would be a little more balanced? No some people wanna use it against us. I know how you feel and wish the world was a little more compassionate.

[lonegael]

What a manpulative p"#&! My mom will pull this sometimes, but not to that degree, partly because she knows my oldest son and my hubby will take her on it. But never so thought out and consistantly as this. He "needs" to get a drink and he calls YOU crazy? Yeah. Right.
That said, Moose, can you think a way of changing your own battle rules? I can't tell you how, but it seems to me he goads you, you, understandably, blow, and he has "proof" that you are crazy. I used to blow all the time, then i just realize I was playing into people's hands. Just a thought.
heart goes out to you. That is no way to have to live. Huggs

[Moose72]

I can deal with it only so many times - then when he turns everybody against me thats it. Wtf is wrong with ****s like him????

[lonegael]

A wee bit of sadism? A dash of sociopathy and a half measure of control issues? Such behavior is normal in a cat. I would wish a man has a bit more humanity in him. GRRRR

[Moose72]

Exactly. I had thought of neutering to fix such behavior! Lol

Unfortunately, i am still stressed and ran into a friend. We ended up watching tv and smoking pot and eating hot wings. Myanic side would've loved sex but I must not be that far gone as I still have standards! Lol