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Aug 16, 2012, 10:35 PM
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Just when I've been feeling fine about our relationship and the way its going this happens. What is is freaking problem? Oh yeah. He's selfish. Pretends to care but is really putting himself first.
So he hasn't been texting me very much lately. Yesterday and today really. He used to talk to me before bed or text me. He had been doing that up until yesterday. So when I didn't hear from him all day today- after he's put cute little comments on my photos online- I asked his daughter if he was mad at me or what. I figured something was up. She said that of course he isn't going to answer the phone or texts when he's spending the night at "her" house. Yes his new soulmate who is going to take him away from his life and be his sugar mama. She figured I would be upset by this news. I said that I wouldn't and that I figured our friendship was ending. That I know who he is and am not surprised one bit. In fact, he's been sleeping with others during a lot of our relationship. I just want to be NOT lied to- i.e. by omission. Not that this is my business, of course, but shutting me out completely is just immature - and blaming it on my supposedly being upset is assanine. I am mad at the deception- NOT the fact that he thinks he has a new soulmate he's having sex with. Do I think its stupid on his part? Yeah. But that's him. That's how he operates.
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Aug 16, 2012, 10:41 PM
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Aug 16, 2012, 10:50 PM
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We're not even dating and yet he's acting like he's cheating on me. Yup. That's him.
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Aug 17, 2012, 10:23 AM
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 I feel for you Moose. He seems like a jerk. And, if I was his "soulmate" I wouldn't want him in my life either, actually. Because if he's not telling you about him being over there, and acting like he's a cheat when you're just friends, then he obviously isn't even telling her that you exist. (It makes sense.) And, if he puts this spin on it, then it makes him look like a lying cheat all around... no, I wouldn't be happy about that at all. Plus the texting every night, being intimate (emotionally) friends, then dropping off like that suddenly without warning... his behavior is not healthy for anyone. Not you, him, or her either. Maybe this isn't a very healthy friendship. I know you've been saying that you don't have a lot of people to talk to recently. But, having toxic people is worse than having none at all. I learned that the hard way.
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Aug 17, 2012, 11:50 AM
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Aug 17, 2012, 12:41 PM
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You need only to be around healthy people in my view, Moose, that's all. Your self-esteem will come back and you'll feel much happier if you are more selective about
whom you let into your life as good friends. (They are really not easy to find, so you have a good search on, for sure, but don't settle for less the next time.) Take care of yourself. |
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Aug 17, 2012, 12:43 PM
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 I Just got used to this relationship. It was familiar. And of course, I have this place. Everybody here is great.
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Aug 17, 2012, 02:10 PM
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Moose, you deserve so much better than just familiarity. You're a great person.
I'm glad you have a few good frineds. I say give them a call and get rid of this jerk.
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Aug 17, 2012, 02:26 PM
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I just called one and talked for a while. She is several states away. I called another and he's several cities away and doesn't know when he's coming back. :-/
I was going to take the kids out to putterz golf. We have some free games. Its a nice day. But they want to stay in and eat chips and play scrabble. Another friend I talked to yesterday was so nice and sweet. So I do have some good friends in my life. But not anything that can come over right now. I did ask one more about coming over who IS in town, but I had to leave a voicemail.
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Aug 17, 2012, 02:29 PM
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I think said jerk is getting rid of himself and I'm certainly not encouraging otherwise. He did send me a stupid text this morning saying he didn't reply last night because he "couldn't". 
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Aug 17, 2012, 02:36 PM
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And by the way, I'm glad to have all the people on this board. You really do keep me together sometimes! We keep each OTHER together!
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Aug 17, 2012, 03:23 PM
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Wow, what a ****! Hahaha. I hope you find someone worthwhile to support you & be honest with you.
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Aug 17, 2012, 04:08 PM
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Aug 17, 2012, 05:53 PM
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Aug 17, 2012, 06:06 PM
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Here's another sweet recording of my son singing!
Re: "He", he emailed me. UGH. He's so mixed up.
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Aug 17, 2012, 06:40 PM
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I sent that video to him. Its saying I'll always love him kindly, but goodbye.
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Aug 17, 2012, 08:55 PM
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I'm crashing mood wise ..But ...
He didn't deserve you when he had you and now that the physical aspect is over, yet still plays childish games... hes a useless " friend " FRIENDS DON"T treat each other with such Disrespect ! I would dump him like a bad habit on ALL levels.. Love ya Moose 
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Aug 17, 2012, 09:03 PM
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