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Old Oct 24, 2012, 02:41 PM
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Still trying to get in to see my T. I have a feeling I won't be able to until we go together on Saturday, if we can make that appointment.

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Old Oct 24, 2012, 06:13 PM
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Old Oct 25, 2012, 05:26 PM
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Thinking seriously about separation right now. We will talk about it with T on Saturday and then see where we go from there. He doesn't know if he would move out now and I have been figuring out ways to stay in my house for as long as possible with the kids. I have a feeling we might find ourselves at an impasse.
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Old Oct 25, 2012, 05:36 PM
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There is never an easy way to deal with a relationship like this. Its hard to know what you should or shouldn't do. Hopefully with your T you can start to make decisions. Your in a tough spot that's for sure.

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Old Oct 25, 2012, 05:49 PM
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This week has been so painful. I am actually looking forward to ECT as a break.
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Old Oct 25, 2012, 07:24 PM
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Have kept up with your post & am so sorry you're going thru all this.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 06:26 PM
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Couples therapy again tomorrow.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 06:30 PM
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Hope its a good session for you
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How are you doing now? Are you spending the holidays together or separately?
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I looked the screen name up on google and it seems that she's stopped using it for everything.

I also found someone with the sn on a dating site...:\
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I looked the screen name up on google and it seems that she's stopped using it for everything.

I also found someone with the sn on a dating site...:\
I hope the presence on a dating site is good news. I know she found the H at issue online. Hopefully the next guy will be better.
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Old May 17, 2013, 08:55 AM
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It wasn't me on the dating site...

We seem to have worked things out and are getting along for now. I went back and read this whole thread. I forgot how bad things had gotten. I am glad they are better. We are in the same room again, and I can actually look to him for support.

It is good to have a reminder of how bad it was so that I can watch out for signs, but that was certainly a painful time.

I am sorry I disappeared.
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