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This is something that troubled me for a long time. Like, a very long time.
I feel like other people, even ones who do not know me or even through the internet, already know they should avoid me. This may sound stupid. But, it's true.... Like... it's very hard for me to not only feel like people connect with me but also more like people are trying to avoid me, or know to avoid me. And sometimes it is less and sometimes more. Sometimes I think I am lucky and find some people who either ignore this or who don't know it and so they become my friends. Everyone else, though, I think they avoid me or know already. Like for instance, at line at a service counter, for like fast food or 7-11 type of counter, I'd be next in line and the check-out person would skip over me to help the person behind me. It made me feel invisible. This doesn't happen as much now because I've become very vocal in not being walked over. But next is like... the ladies at work. In the lunch room if the co-worker who normally sits with me has other things going on, the other ladies are very uncomfortable with me and try to avoid me. Like yesterday they all sat at a 4 table and the one with her back to me didn't turn to make sure I was not included.... it felt like a high school clique. ![]() I just feel like, I must eminant some presance or something. And it's been a long time becaus I was badly bullied starting in first grade, which is really when I start to remember, and all through school. And so, this is an observation that doesn't change. Does anyone else feel that this happens? I feel like no matter where I go, this is the majority. I just don't fit in very easily and I don't understand why. ![]()
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![]() ![]() Oh I understand how you are feeling. I struggle with this myself. I think this is when being bullied as a child then to have your " friends" betray you is part of the situation. We all know that if our self esteem is messed with our busy lil brains will automatically assume the worst. I wish I had some actual advice to offer. I will think on this more and maybe some words will come ![]()
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It seems so unfair, Dark Heart. You don't deserve that, really and truly; no one does.
Try to get the most toxic ones out if you can. Their conduct is almost a kind of infection. You want to keep yourself free from that as much as possible. Look for your friends among those who are really mature and caring people. They're out there and you'll find them. You really are a nice person and deserve good people in your life. Last edited by anonymous8113; May 30, 2013 at 05:23 PM. |
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Feeling invisible isn't fun.
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It's like being bullied all those years. I don't know why I was the target. I don't understand. Now instead of bullying like push you down or call you names, people are just catty and stupid. I don't get it. ![]()
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It's largely the result of ignorance, Black Heart. In time, you'll feel pity for them and you'll be on your way to healthy friendships with people who are just that: healthy. |
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I like reading your posts. You seem like a great person so I can't imagine why anyone would do this. I was also bullied at school so I know what it feels like.
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Sis, people are stoopid
![]() Stick to us fairies ![]() So sorry you feel "marked", you're a wonderful person, and the people who can't see that are missing out BIGTIME ![]() |
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