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I don't even know how to not "hide" because even if I'm not actually hiding I'm unable to look like a typical depressed person
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Does that answer or question or make any sense to you?
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So you feel like you aren't able to express your emotions? That you aren't able to express yourself using body language? This sounds like something that could be repaired using psychotherapy possibly?? I don't know, just asking .
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I did all my 44 of life, or least 36 of them, until I started having meltdowns on my job for last 9 months and I was fired. Needless to say, I have been fired from at least 3 other jobs for the same type "outbursts". So yeah, I can fake it for a while but then my mask eventually always comes unglued.
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This last year I came out with the BP and OCD to my co-workers. I was sick and tired of putting that fake smile on, but I still do. People say they never imagine it and I act so normal. I just say you know only 5% of me! you have no clue. It's weird how we hide so much, are we protecting ourselves, or them, or maybe both?
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Yup, I keep it to myself and those I'm really close. If only because of the stigma. Say 'bipolar' they hear 'batshoot crazy'. Not worth it.
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Only my dog knows how batsh*t crazy I really am, I hide it from everyone else in real life... it's easy because I have no friends.
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But my puppies love me for me. And treats. Sent from my SCH-I535 using Tapatalk
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My labels: Bipolar 1 w/ psychosis PTSD GAD SAD ADHD Current meds: 1500mg divalproex sodium 3mg alprazolam 0.5 mg triazolam PRN assorted non psych meds. ![]() |
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It does make sense. I carry that same fear, but I don't think I've ever admitted it before. Wow. Not sure I acknowledged it even to myself. Thanks. roads
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I knew Someone who used to tell everyone how bad she was. At the first moment everypeople care of her till one day some of them started to be plenty sick. Then suddenly stopped to talk with her because they didn't want to be hearing hers issues when all of them have owns. She's still doing the same and she has lost a lot of friends in her way.
Years later I can't forget how bad she feels those days. So when my anxiety started to be so hard, I knew that no one cares how you feel. In one hand you want to be honest, you need it, but in the other hand you have the people who don't care and the people who you don't want to be worried about it (mom, dad, hubby.... ) At the end of all of this I decided not to worry my family and some friends, I decided that there is a lot of people that I don't want to have their nose into my issues. So I prefer to hide in my mask. If they don't know about me, they can't hurt me. That is the reason why I find this group so important, because here I can really be honest. |
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Yep. Pretty much all the time. Some people would think Im lying if I told them how many times Ive been in the hospital or showed them my scars.
I even hide my feelings and most emotions from my family and friends. I isolate. |
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I work in a HIGHLY stressful healthcare job (when able) which I think is part of the reason people see through me. My patients never know, and in groups I'm usually the quiet one (unless I'm off the rails manic, then all bets are off). In general, people who don't know me very well never see it, but anyone who spends considerable time with me knows something's wrong.
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