Husband is against me bc I'm bipolar

Sad I can't tell my husband anymore about my episodes or mood swings or depression he isn't on my side anymore he isn't my friend anymore and he's just waiting for me to have an episode or depression so he can record me again and have some proof so if he has to take My son away he will say I'm an unfit parent that is his plan I found text messages and a lawyer suggested by his mom.. So yea I don't have my husband anymore to talk to or tell when in feeling down bc he wants me to mess up and not be functional so he can have full custody of our son it makes me so mad bc I take care of him everyday! I do everything and I just got a part time job he wants our son in daycare what good is that gonna do putting him in daycare while he works long hours and comes home late anyways had to vent I have my friends and family support but I'm kinds pissed off that my husband and my in laws are so against me bc I'm bipolar pissed me off and his mom and dad just want my son back in their lonely town bc there is nothing so they will tell my husband anythjng and my husband lies to them and vents to them about me. I read the text messages I just wish he wasn't agaisnt me and supoorted me and didn't make things worse when I am manic or depressed.. He doesn't get it.. So I'm trying not to show a bit of weakness or tell my husband bc that's just ammunition he will use in court to take my son away.. That's evil if you ask me.. I'm doing the best I can... I love my son more than anything it's not my fault I have bipolar and stuff but I would never ever hurt my son..

So I'm just watching my back and taking care of myself without my husband supoort

I'm sorry your marriage isn't feeling like a safe place right now. Have you ever considered having your husband accompany you to one of your therapy sessions, or perhaps going to couple's therapy. The behavior you're describing is terrible & you should do something to make yourself feel safe. That's not much, but it's the best I can suggest.

Well I'm sorry to hear you're being treated unfairly.
Just do the best you can

Can you and your son move in with your family for right now? You already know he's looking to record your losing it just to make sure he gets custody..

So you can, as a Mom realize your marriage is over ,Can't imagine your marriage doing a 180 and being supportive at this point, So move out to protect yourself and your son.

Take charge , Don't just wait around for him to make the next move. You need to be a step ahead. Talk to your T and Pdoc about ensuring your abiblity to show proof that your capable of having your son, Speak to an attorney or legal aide to find out what steps you need to take so that your husband can't accuse you "being crazy and kidnapping your son"

Get information and get outta that house. Take charge.. Act instead of react .

Stay safe

I'm moved in with my parents right now it is helping..

I'm sorry this is happening

I am so sorry you are going through this

I'm sorry you are going through this. You are handling it a lot better than I would. For better or for worse is real to me and I can't give you advice because my advice might make things worse. I have such a low tolerance for disrespect.

Christina has good advice and thats the best thing to do. Get one step ahead of him. Always make sure you are one step ahead.