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I live in a rural area. There aren't a lot of houses around us. Our neighbors have a son the same age as my son and they have played together since they were infants and they get along quite well. They use to let their son come over and play with my son. They found out through the grape vine that I am bipolar. Ever since then they won't let their son come over and play with my son. This is very upsetting to me. My son doesn't understand why his friend is not allowed to come over. He has to go over to their house if he wants to play with him. I thought about saying something but haven't because I don't want to cause conflict and hurt my son's friendship. Please let me know your suggestions. Thanks!
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I explained to my daughter, when she was young, that mom had a sick brain and that other people didn't understand and would be afraid. Other than that, I was just gracious and was extra nice to the ignorant ones, which paid off in all sorts of ways.
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No words...what jerks
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So very sorry big hugs!!
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That is awful. I am sorry to hear.
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Terrible situation. Time is a great healer.
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I don't really find it that surprising. Most people don't understand bipolar disorder, and there have been so many news reports of crazy things done by so-called bipolar people that we have a bad reputation as a result. Anyway, I would let your son play with his friend at his friend's house for a while and look for an opportunity to educate his parents on what bipolar disorder is and what it is not. Hopefully, in time, they will realize that you are a good person, rather than a risk, and they will allow their son to play at your house.
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True. Whenever I hear about some type of mass shooting or something similar, I hold my breath waiting to hear them indicate the person had "mental illness issues." I don't hold my breath very long because unfortunately that tends to be the case. We all know those are extreme cases and does not affect the majority of people with MI. What was the relationship between you and the mother before? Was it pretty casual where it was based on your children playing with each other?
Last edited by gina_re; Apr 26, 2016 at 08:09 PM. |
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What about asking the mom over for coffee? You might find an empty spot in conversation to bring it up. WHo knows, perhaps she might bring it up. No pressure to say anything. Just keep it a social situation.
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This is a great idea. Bravo!
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