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May 20, 2016, 08:45 PM
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I don't even know what to type. I am heartbroken to start. My husband lost a part of himself this morning when his grandpa passed away. I am grieving this loss also. He has been like my own grandpa for the last 12 years.
When my husband came home just now, I didn't even know how to react. I hugged him enormously and told him I loved him but it felt a little awkward. I'm not sure what is okay and what is not okay. I heard him sobbing  in the basement so I went down just to let him know I am here for anything he needs. He said he just wants to be alone. I know this is hard for him. He is grieving deeply for Grandpa just as he is torn and grieving for a broken marriage. I know there will be joy again but I just need a little break for a while. I need some sunshine. I don't think I can handle anything else.
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***** Every finger in the room is pointing at me I want to spit in their faces then I get afraid of what that could bring I got a bowling ball in my stomach I got a desert in my mouth Figures that my courage would choose to sell out now Tori Amos ~ Crucify Dx: Schizoaffective Disorder |
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May 20, 2016, 08:57 PM
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(((Hugs)))
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May 20, 2016, 09:00 PM
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I wish I had words to say that would make you feel better.
I wish I could sit, have tea with you, and share your tears. I wish I could bring you sunshine and smiles But I can't Please know that we are here for you Hugs and peace
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May 20, 2016, 09:14 PM
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***** Every finger in the room is pointing at me I want to spit in their faces then I get afraid of what that could bring I got a bowling ball in my stomach I got a desert in my mouth Figures that my courage would choose to sell out now Tori Amos ~ Crucify Dx: Schizoaffective Disorder |
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#5
May 20, 2016, 09:35 PM
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I agree with Standup2me, I wish I could be there for you, too. I've been going through a really stressful time, too, so I will share what I have learned: find pieces of joy where you can. Look for beauty and find appreciation in it. Spend time with friends and people you love. I hope you find comfort in simple pleasures and in the people you care about. Remember that "this, too, shall pass," and things will get better. HUGS!!!!
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May 21, 2016, 05:30 AM
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May 21, 2016, 07:16 AM
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HUGS
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May 21, 2016, 07:35 AM
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Allow yourself to grieve, too. It was loving of you to reach out to your husband, even though he didn't accept the gesture. Find someone you can grieve with.
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