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Old May 29, 2018, 11:40 AM
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So one of the main reason I am depressed is my dream job how close I was to it Nd how it was taken away. That created a sh it rolling downhill effect, that led to other issues manifesting itself.

So Memorial Day just passed and I once again got depressed. This was cause of another dream I had thought I would of accomplished by now. Wife kids, dog bbqing in our own home. Smiling being happy. I don’t think this is one I have to let go. I think it is possible but it made me sad that hasn’t happened yet.
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Old May 29, 2018, 12:37 PM
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Letting go of dreams

May all your dreams come true.
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Old May 29, 2018, 04:32 PM
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dream ... what's that ...
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Old May 29, 2018, 05:57 PM
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I’m gonna be single forever .
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Old May 29, 2018, 08:10 PM
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I’m gonna be single forever .


If this is what you tell yourself and have settled on, then that will be the case. Focus on what makes you a good catch and what you want to accomplish. Your energy will change once you decide to.
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Old May 30, 2018, 11:11 AM
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Giving up dreams is hard. I've had to find some new dreams since my diagnosis.
Having said that, it's never too late to find love.
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Old May 30, 2018, 12:26 PM
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What are you doing about it. Posting won't change a thing. Take action.
Go out there, find a woman. Any woman. They are all more or less the same, and practice.
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Old Jun 03, 2018, 12:09 AM
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What are you doing about it. Posting won't change a thing. Take action.
Go out there, find a woman. Any woman. They are all more or less the same, and practice.
It just so hard sometimes to get out of bed. Other times I’m good. Got a med change. Well just Wellbutrin got upped.
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Old Jun 03, 2018, 03:27 PM
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I had so many dreams crushed that I just gave up dreaming...putting all my eggs in one basket...

Now my approach is “things that I would like to do”- so if it doesn’t happen, it’s no big deal.

I’ve noticed that I can get so caught up on the thing that will fix everything...and when it falls through...everything crashes. I guess you can call that other things....but I can romanticize with all earnest to be greatly disappointed. Sometimes I wonder if I’m borderline as well.
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