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Old Aug 25, 2018, 03:45 PM
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There has always been something about me (?) that does not “deserve” hugs from some people, but which does “deserve” to be corrected. I’m thinking specifically of a very callous therapist, in real life, and of course my Parental Units. . (And others.. a lot of horrible mean men when I was younger )

Now I avoid most people.

I try to be considerate of others.

When I was much younger I didn’t have as much empathy as I do now, but I was never a horrible “selfish” person (as I was accused of being)

I don’t understand.

I’m guessing, if I’m honest, that all or most of these people are Narcissists. Maybe I’m a juicy feed

I thought I could spot them, I guess I usually can

I do not believe that “sensitive” equals “weak”

But out in the “world” it seems that many believe that, ah well, they are wrong.

I’m absolutely dreading the next 10 minute doctor appointment

I’m really not “a stupid person” and I never was. So I fail to understand their lack of respect. But I think that EVERYONE deserves respect.

(Not about anyone on pc)
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Old Aug 25, 2018, 03:51 PM
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I agree, Fuzzy.

Sensitive is not weak.
Everyone deserves respect!

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Old Aug 25, 2018, 04:14 PM
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What is Soft is Strong

Water is fluid, soft, and
yielding. But water will
wear away rock, which is
rigid and cannot yield. As a
rule, whatever is fluid, soft,
and yielding will overcome
whatever is rigid and hard.
What is soft is strong.
-Lao Tzu
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Old Aug 25, 2018, 04:39 PM
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What is Soft is Strong

Water is fluid, soft, and
yielding. But water will
wear away rock, which is
rigid and cannot yield. As a
rule, whatever is fluid, soft,
and yielding will overcome
whatever is rigid and hard.
What is soft is strong.
-Lao Tzu
I love this, thank you
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Old Aug 25, 2018, 04:40 PM
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I agree, Fuzzy.

Sensitive is not weak.
Everyone deserves respect!

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Thank you (((((((( Wild Coyote ))))))))

Much love to you
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Old Aug 25, 2018, 04:47 PM
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PS there is (or was... I don’t know if she is still there ) one doctor who tried to listen in the 10 minutes available. (The other “nice” doctor left..)

But both have a less rigid manner, and some softness

But are constricted by the rigid burocrassy (can’t spell it)

If the softer, stronger, Doctor is still there I may have to camp outside the surgery overnight (not literally)

She asked me if I had seen a psychiatrist... I just said yes.

I don’t trust them
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Old Aug 25, 2018, 04:54 PM
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Loads of love and respect for you coming from here, Fuzzybear
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Old Aug 25, 2018, 05:41 PM
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Old Aug 25, 2018, 05:56 PM
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Old Aug 25, 2018, 06:18 PM
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I agree, Fuzzy.

Sensitive is not weak.
Everyone deserves respect!

WC
Those lines caught my eye, too, WC. I totally agree.
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Those lines caught my eye, too, WC. I totally agree.
Thanks, I think this is a sign of strength and intelligence, acknowledging this, it’s a shame more people don’t understand this Truth.. but it’s their loss

And people who think people with MI are ...(insert ignorant label/insult) (I’m not a fan of ignorant judgmental people...)

just yawn at those ignorant judgers, too many in so many of our families grrr
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