Friend won’t visit while I’m “sick”!

He says I’m sick. But he’ll talk with me on the phone every day for hours!

Does he do most of the talking? If he does it is definitely not in your best interest. You can't continue to be his therapist.
This sounds like co-dependency, hard to grasp.

Take care of your self. Do you have other friends
Maybe you could find a friend or 2 at your place that you live???
good night
bizi

Yes! He does most of the talking!

It’s 2am and I can’t sleep. I think I need a sooner appointment with my Pdoc than April 21st.my texts and emails to friends are rambling. I feel out of control!

I have plenty of friends in church choir but I don’t share my mental illness with them. They wouldn’t understand. Like the time I saw angels outside where we were singing. Huge beings they were! Kinda scary though they didn’t talk to me. Just stood outside the wrought iron gate.

Now he says we can get together as my rash is gone! I wasn’t contagious!

Have you looked into somatization disorder at all?

We finally made plans for him to come- sort of. No date set but breakfast plans at a new place.

He’s having a cystoscope done to look for any return of bladder cancer tomorrow so he wants to recover from that this weekend. But he has mentioned the new breakfast place a few times and is looking forward to it so I’m hoping for a week from this Saturday. The new diner opens at 6 so that’s the main reason we’re going there so I can get to church early on Sunday as usual.