You know you're borderline when...

unaluna · Jan 08, 2012, 08:51 PM

Uh-oh... you mean it doesn't?! Too bad for them!

crazycanbegood · Jan 08, 2012, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by hankster

Uh-oh... you mean it doesn't?!

i keep telling myself that my coworker does NOT like me, does NOT like me. but alas, i am still fantasizing about dating her!

xenabaiche · Jan 09, 2012, 06:46 AM

You cry while watching cartoons...

I do that, especially while watching Sailor Moon, aha.

PleaseHelp · Jan 09, 2012, 09:02 AM

your moods are so extreme that even you can't stand dealing with them and you wonder why anyone else would want to put up with you.

athena2011 · Jan 09, 2012, 09:10 AM

You tell your T everything you hate about yourself (because that's what you want him to help you with). Then since now he knows what you're like, you assume he MUST hate you now.

doglover5 · Jan 09, 2012, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by athena2011

Yah, but didn't you know cats are borderline. "I hate you, now feed me!"

Lol so true! "Don't touch me, pour me milk now!!"

athena2011 · Jan 09, 2012, 12:36 PM

You're a dog person...because dogs love you unconditionally. Something we crave so deeply.

doglover5 · Jan 09, 2012, 12:49 PM

You're at the office waiting for your pdoc visit & happen to see your psychologist pass by. But she doesn't look at you, or wave, or anything; so she must hate you, and you probably need to cancel your next appointment with her, bc she's dreading your visit & you definitely don't want to see her then anyway! You'll just be annoying her the whole time and she can't help you if she's annoyed by your mere presence anyway. Yeah a new psychologist would just be much better.

doglover5 · Jan 09, 2012, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by athena2011

You're a dog person...because dogs love you unconditionally. Something we crave so deeply.

You are so very right. I think my dog is the only breathing being on the planet that I trust completely to never leave me!

athena2011 · Jan 09, 2012, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by doglover5

You're at the office waiting for your pdoc visit & happen to see your psychologist pass by. But she doesn't look at you, or wave, or anything; so she must hate you, and you probably need to cancel your next appointment with her, bc she's dreading your visit & you definitely don't want to see her then anyway! You'll just be annoying her the whole time and she can't help you if she's annoyed by your mere presence anyway. Yeah a new psychologist would just be much better.

Something similar happened to me. Saw my pdoc in the elevator after my appt. No acknowledgement, no hello, no eye contact, nothing. The whole damn elevator ride. I never went back. In your case though - maybe she just didn't see you.

Jan 09, 2012, 01:18 PM

When you feel like telling the world to P*** off.

nicoleb2 · Jan 09, 2012, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by doglover5

You're at the office waiting for your pdoc visit & happen to see your psychologist pass by. But she doesn't look at you, or wave, or anything; so she must hate you, and you probably need to cancel your next appointment with her, bc she's dreading your visit & you definitely don't want to see her then anyway! You'll just be annoying her the whole time and she can't help you if she's annoyed by your mere presence anyway. Yeah a new psychologist would just be much better.

Technically, at least where I live, t's and pdocs can't acknowledge you outside of your session unless you initiate the contact due to confidentiality laws and rules

kristi4816 · Jan 10, 2012, 07:02 AM

You call yourself stupid for dropping something & then remind yourself you need to be nicer to yourself & then call yourself horrible for calling yourself stupid....

kristi4816 · Jan 10, 2012, 07:13 AM

You posted your first comment in the intro. thread on the psyche forum, but there is no reply yet. Was it a stupid question? Did people not get my humor? Should I erase it? Maybe they (moderators) just haven't gotten to it yet. Maybe I should just do something else....but maybe I should I look just to make sure? Maybe I should cancel my thingy (subscription). If I just ignore it, pretend I didn't join, it won't matter, I can stop thinking about it.... I need to look. Did someone else pose the same question & I should have looked more? Did I violate some rule, cuz afeterall I did not read the rules as ussual, which would of course be my fault....

PleaseHelp · Jan 11, 2012, 10:05 AM

when you totally resent the dog b/c he shows your SO more attention than you and you got him to be your dog.

beauflow · Jan 11, 2012, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by PleaseHelp

when you totally resent the dog b/c he shows your SO more attention than you and you got him to be your dog.

When i start to do this and feel this way- I tell the dog he is not better than me, then pat him on the head.. I do this in front of my boyfriend at times too

It is a sucky feeling, but the dog is a dog-

they will be about anyone's friend right?

Flooded · Jan 11, 2012, 06:19 PM

When your gp threatens to section you under the mental health act and you tell to go f**k herself..

Jan 13, 2012, 10:19 AM

when your DBT therapist admits she's really worried about you and that you have to speak on the phone with her daily as well as daily contact with the crisis team and see a crisis team dr to talk about options including re starting meds and more admissions. so you decide to lie on all the calls cuz you don't want to be trapped. :s

Forbiddenrain · Jan 16, 2012, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by cheekipixi

omg!!!! I laugh but it is all so true. my ex works funny shifts, he was working nights this night, I txted him,no reply, txt again, no reply, a few hrs goes by, what started out as a hello, I love you txt, ends up with me putting him with a woman, says he's working but has sneekly taken the night off, I threaten him with alsorts, like scratching his car, I then go and see if his car is where it is usually parked, I drive like a thing possessed, not giving a secong thought to speed cameras etc, his car is there and he's 4gotten his charger.....................how could I get to this state?????

I constantly do this to my husband..im finally at the stage that I know 90% of our problems are because of me. My whole life ive been feeling this way, im 22 now & just really would love to be normal..for not only my sake but those around me. >.<

Forbiddenrain · Jan 16, 2012, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by PleaseHelp

when you write an email to your SO (who knows that your already struggling), you apologize for just about everything in life, telling him how much your a burden to him and the girls and everyone would be better off without you. Then you get pissed b/c he doesn't respond to your email, even though he said he would email you b/c he knew how you were feeling. So you feel like you where right the entire time. You are a burden and making everyone else unhappy, they would all be better off without you, and you are truly a piece of s h i t. Only for him to email you back 2 hours later telling you that his & the girls life would be so much worse without you and how much they all love you. Oh and the reason he didn't get back to you right away is b/c he was trying to get homework/studying done so he could spend most of the weekend with you b/c he knows how bad your feeling. So then you feel even worse about yourself. I hate BPD!

I hate when this happens too! I called my husband 30 times within half an hr just to find out his phone was accidentally on silent >.< meanwhile I thought every horrible reason possible. F m l

nicoleb2 · Jan 17, 2012, 12:41 AM

When you talk to or text with your t 7 of the last 8 days. Including having a session, and then needing to contact her later that day.
When your t makes you go home and bring her back your med stash...
When you figure out that she may have your med stash, but the ones you take on a daily basis are just as deadly

Jan 18, 2012, 05:03 AM

when your t said shed come to your house if that's what it will take to keep you safe.

when you hate your friend and she's annoying you in every possible way while she's staying at yours so you want her to go home BUT your scared that shell leave and hate you.

Forgive77 · Jan 20, 2012, 03:30 PM

When a know it all posts something on another forum....and you want to cyber stalk her, and wack her with her own text book!!!

Forgive77 · Jan 20, 2012, 03:39 PM

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When a know it all posts something on another forum....and you want to cyber stalk her, and wack her with her own text book!!!

And then she comes, and hugs you!! AH!!!! Me!!!! Black black black!!! Where's the white? LOL

PleaseHelp · Jan 20, 2012, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Forgive77

And then she comes, and hugs you!! AH!!!! Me!!!! Black black black!!! Where's the white? LOL

White??? What's white?? You mean there is white? I guess next you're going to tell me there is grey too! Such foreign concepts!

(I totally do this too. Just trying to make light of the situation)

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