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Old Jan 31, 2012, 03:46 PM
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...I am in tears....not fully like dripping everywhere ...but just wet eyes enough to prove I know that what I am gonna write is important.

ok...yeh you got me...I am crying just a little bit but I have a hanky...

looks big enough to carpet a family home...

so do we have buddies?

people we know who know us?...really know us?...

these are the ones...the persons ...the people that keep us alive!

not sexual...not demanding...not hurting....

just loving, these are the friends I speak of and they are all around us here.

some get a bit closer than others...and thats cos they are meant to....cos they know something we don't....
And I tell you there is plenty I don't know and I need help with....we...even I...and I know I have wanted to have some friends for a long time.

has your life been hard and friends hard to come by and let you down?
well it wasn't their fault...I guess they had other stuff to do....yep

I hope I can be a better friend to all you special people and now I gotta pull out the damn hanky again cos I know even if I don't know you I cannot help but care because I know what it's like to feel alone.

always..

monkey
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Old Feb 01, 2012, 10:17 AM
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...I am in tears....not fully like dripping everywhere ...but just wet eyes enough to prove I know that what I am gonna write is important.

ok...yeh you got me...I am crying just a little bit but I have a hanky...

looks big enough to carpet a family home...

so do we have buddies?

people we know who know us?...really know us?...

these are the ones...the persons ...the people that keep us alive!

not sexual...not demanding...not hurting....

just loving, these are the friends I speak of and they are all around us here.

some get a bit closer than others...and thats cos they are meant to....cos they know something we don't....
And I tell you there is plenty I don't know and I need help with....we...even I...and I know I have wanted to have some friends for a long time.

has your life been hard and friends hard to come by and let you down?
well it wasn't their fault...I guess they had other stuff to do....yep

I hope I can be a better friend to all you special people and now I gotta pull out the damn hanky again cos I know even if I don't know you I cannot help but care because I know what it's like to feel alone.

always..

monkey

We sure are your your friends, buddy. Thank you, too.
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Old Feb 01, 2012, 10:21 AM
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Thank you. I enjoy reading your posts. I know in RL its very hard for me to make and keep friends.
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Old Feb 01, 2012, 10:39 AM
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((((((((((((( dubblemonkey )))))))))))))))))))

We all need others in our lives, some to make us laugh, some to face the really tough stuff and some just to give us a hug.

I'm glad you are figuring all this out. You deserve to have friends, hugs, the tough stuff said and to laugh. Hang in there buddy.....there is always a rainbow after the dark clouds pass.


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Old Feb 01, 2012, 11:15 AM
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Sadly, I have never had a close friend really. I realize that I personally don't let them in because I don't want them to know about the real confusion of mind and existence here in this world as it is. If they even come close to trying to find out who I am, I simply run and hide from them. Now, I live alone with no friends or family because I have pushed everyone away and don't want to have anything to do with them. A serious issue for me; I know. But, that is where I am at. Frankly, I even enjoy my quiet life right now.
So, if you are even realizing that you have friends, I find that an accomplishment in itself.
Sounds like your tears are tears of love and joy. Savor those.
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Old Feb 01, 2012, 10:41 PM
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people we know who know us?...really know us?...

these are the ones...the persons ...the people that keep us alive!

not sexual...not demanding...not hurting....

just loving, these are the friends I speak of and they are all around us here.
It takes time to get to know people. It takes nurturing to keep a friendship alive. It takes caring, love, patience, understanding, compassion, willingness to accept a person as they are, and as they change over time. A true connection. I am your friend J, and hope to always be.
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Learn as if you were going to live forever. Live as if you were going to die tomorrow.” - Mahatma Gandhi
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Old Feb 01, 2012, 10:51 PM
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you people are especially awesome!!

love from J
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