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Old Oct 27, 2013, 01:21 AM
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I am looking others who have been diagnosed with BPD. I have been suffering from it for a long time now. After different therapies and medications, I decided to take matters to my own hand and give up and hoped that if i just accepted the fact that I have BPD that it would make my life so much easier. I am wrong. I wanted to know more about it now to cope better.
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Old Oct 27, 2013, 06:06 AM
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I am looking others who have been diagnosed with BPD. I have been suffering from it for a long time now. After different therapies and medications, I decided to take matters to my own hand and give up and hoped that if i just accepted the fact that I have BPD that it would make my life so much easier. I am wrong. I wanted to know more about it now to cope better.


Hi there
I was diagnosed with BPD and Major Depression in 2011, though I have suffered the symptoms for as long as I can remember.
I've tried various coping methods, but the only one that has even remotely helped is DBT.
You are not alone, and recovery is possible. I personally am not where I would like to be, but I'm doing much better than I was 2 years ago and I'm just taking things one day at a time.
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Old Oct 27, 2013, 12:46 PM
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Diagnosed a few years ago but been suffering since I was in my early/mid teens.

Nothing I've tried has worked I'm afraid so I'm not good with advice. I'm currently on the waiting list for DBT.
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Old Oct 27, 2013, 02:57 PM
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I am quite new to it all myself.......don't have a lot of advice but I do hope you find it helpful here
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Old Oct 27, 2013, 03:16 PM
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I have struggled long and hard for my entire life but only recently diagnosed as well. I have heard great things about DBT and have workbook of my own. The stuff in there is really useful and I'm hoping to join a DBT group someday. I can't say that meds help with my intense emotions or with irrational thinking, but they have helped me feel less depressed.
I also find that stability, having a stable relationship, job or what not can really help with my BPD.
Although managing to get and KEEP one of those is the difficult part.
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Old Oct 28, 2013, 07:37 PM
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I also find that stability, having a stable relationship, job or what not can really help with my BPD.
Although managing to get and KEEP one of those is the difficult part.
I agree...stability is necessary or I just lose it. Right now my life is one unstable mess....getting layed off from my job, breaking up with my bf...I'm so afraid and alone. I have minutes where it's okay and I feel like I can breathe...and then days like today, where I just cant.
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Old Oct 28, 2013, 08:26 PM
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I agree...stability is necessary or I just lose it. Right now my life is one unstable mess....getting layed off from my job, breaking up with my bf...I'm so afraid and alone. I have minutes where it's okay and I feel like I can breathe...and then days like today, where I just cant.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way. I understand what it's like though, it feels like the world is absolutely crashing down and it's a constant twirl of intense emotions ranging from anger, anxiety and depression.
If you'd like to talk, feel free to pm me any time hang in there!
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I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress.


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Old Oct 29, 2013, 07:52 AM
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*Raises hand.

But I am clueless on how I ever will (or IF anyone can) "get better".
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Old Oct 29, 2013, 08:41 AM
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I was diagnosed with BPD this past summer and so I know what you're going through! You're definitely not alone. The meds I'm on don't change how I feel totally but they make the managing of my emotions a little easier. I am always here for you if you need an ear!

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