I lived a little

I just got back from an amazing bachelor party in Southern California. After being dead for a few weeks, months, years ? ... I lived a little. Improv (comedy), a game of Poker that I won (without even really knowing the rules), a flight simulation arcade shooting at my buddies (LOL), a strip club where I met an amazing gal ! Such an awesome weekend it has been, and I'm back ! It was also great to be there for my friend, and send him off to his soon-to-be wife in great style !

I fell for a stripper who was just an amazing person to talk to ... we talked for 30 amazing minutes before she did a private dance for me ... that was icing on the cake (I don't frequent clubs ... just went for the sake of the bachelor !) Of course, in the back of my mind was the fact that she does what she does for money.

But, I'm not that naive ... she liked me ... really She asked me questions during the private dance that she didn't need to ask ... she said how great it'd be if we "got together". I really liked that she talked to me even during the private dance ... if I were being physically intimate with a gf, that's how I would want it to be. At the end, even though we had done some R rated stuff , what I wanted more than anything was to hold her and kiss her softly and passionately and tell her how special I thought she was . I didn't get to do that Oh well, that leaves her all the more special in my mind.

Ok, I know what you're thinking ... she's a stripper, and she seduces for money. I know, but despite it all, it was great just to be close to an amazing gal, even if just for 45 minutes. It was HARDLY about sex, except for the private dance, and that was MIND BLOWING to say the least (just hands and lips). It really helped that we talked for a good 30 minutes before we touched, and I was just so smitten with her, that I didn't need a drop of alcohol in me to loosen up and enjoy the moment ! I had to drive home 2 hours, so no drinking.

I lived a little. I might send her a red rose and a card saying "Zoe ... stay amazing" for Valentines

That's great! Sounds like you had a really good time

Lilodian!!! Really good to read!!!
And............ !!!!!
Sounds like a great weekend, and even if it is a short lived thing/"a moment" with Zoe.......there's still plenty more life out there for you to live
You keep on "seizing the moment/s" hey??!! You deserve them
And..........told you, you could do it!!!

Alison

Thank you, dearest Alison !!!!

Nice high five icon !!! I didn't know that one existed

I really want to like this but I don't want you getting hurt and I also have mixed feelings about women selling sex and the toll it takes on them, especially having just interviewed a prostitute for an article I wrote. Did you get her number etc?

Thanks, but we did not have sex. Also, I didn't get her number. I'm not obsessed with her Just thought it would be nice to say hello and thanks for a good time.

This is not going anywhere It was just a one time thing and it was great !

WTF ?!!!

It's like "That's it, man," but scarier.

For real, though, good going!

Thanks, braw !

It's good to live and have fun