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where people get the bravery to tell your story.My things are so trivial when i compare.But it still is my hurts you know?I wish I was as brave.I just want to say thanks and how brave you all are to survive and to share. take care,Violet
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Your concerns are not trivial, violetmoons. You are in my thoughts.
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Nothing is trivial, violetmoons, your story is as important, YOU are important, as any of us.
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When it hurts you, it's important. It is NOT trivial by any means. Personally, I'd like to hear your story. How do you know it wouldn't help someone else?? Your story might give someone else the nerve to speak up and share.
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Anyone who would berate another person's story is an idiot for missing out on an opportunity for a connection with an actual person. |
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Thank you for these words The Reflex.I think that was very kind of you.Thank you Byzantine,Amoslass,and Leed.Very sweet of you for taking the time.Violet
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"......fly on, little wing....when I'm sad she comes to me,with a thousand smiles she gives to me free....." Last edited by violetmoons; Feb 19, 2011 at 10:25 PM. |
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Just staring at the page.All I can think is the more people know the more they can get in your head.The more they can hurt you.You all take care.
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“You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough” ~Frank Crane
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A fool believes they see the line between.Which is better? Suffering with discretion or by whim of another?
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Everyone has different motivations when telling their story because in the depth and variety of our experiences, there are infinite consequences, both internally and externally. There is no one right time or right way to share your story. That time and method are yours alone, just as your experiences are. Parts of my story were immensely difficult to tell and required a zero-consequence scenario. I told my story then because I was prepared to cut ties with this entire account if necessary. I agonized over telling for a long time. I had to quit posting for a while afterwards, just to take time to myself and try to work through the feelings. My only advice if you want to be careful about disclosing information about yourself is to take steps to protect your identity online. If you are afraid, leave yourself a way out. It will make the process easier.
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So It Goes. (A blog) Last edited by So It Goes; Feb 21, 2011 at 07:55 PM. Reason: Grammar, ugh. |
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You are compassionate.Suffering is inevitable
.I have learned I can't trust.Not me.Not others.Trust is a door.Better locked.I think just very much inside myself.Was criticized alot growing up & I stay surface.I get anxious and leave randomly.People interpret it as mean or stuck up.I am not those.Growing up people saw my looks and not my insides.I got attention I didnt want or need.I'd think a guy cared and it always led to one thing.I worry about that.I tried hard in school but didnt get good grades.Couldnt concentrate.I worry about what people think.I cry easy from worrying.I didnt talk alot as a child.I needed my words to be perfect.They never are and I just freeze.Thanks for reading.
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The most important thing I can stress is you do not have to suffer like this. Suffering may be inevitable but it does not have to be pervasive. You have control over your interpretation of these feelings. If you want to affect change in your thoughts, try not to think in absolutes, as in thinking "I can't trust today," instead of "I can't trust." I'm trying to get the hang of many of these concepts myself but they are helping. Please be kind to yourself; you deserve peace.
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I like that.I can't trust today.Your words help.I will return to these words.If I could trust me the rest wouldnt matter.Stability is so far from here.Dont think in absolutes,I will practice.Your attention is valuable.Thank you.
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It's important in this process to recognize your strengths. You are probably overly aware of your weaknesses. Why not put the perception of those weaknesses down for a time and concentrate on what you are good at? It will give you a much more well-rounded view of yourself.
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That's a can of worms.I'll think on it .Thanks.
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