Feeling abandoned.

I broke up with a girl that I feel like was the "Love of my life" and it's tearing me apart this was 3 months ago. How do you guys cope with such a thing? It's difficult just to keep going.

do you still have contact with this girl?

do you know for sure if she's done with you... perhaps after you've both had some breathing space, she wants to get back together?

3 months seems a pretty good time frame to try and talk to her- have you tried talking to her at all about your feelings?

i don't know the nature of the breakup, why it happened, who broke up with who, etc.

just giving suggestions

You broke up with her? So in the first place you're the one who ended up your relationship. And now you miss her presence and want to be with her again?

Well, there's nothing wrong with getting back with your ex but the question is "is she still single now?" If yes, then go ahead and try to win her back again just like the old days that you were trying to court her.
But if she already have a guy with right now then it's really a signed that you must fully keep moving on. The best way to forget about her is to hang out with your friends, be more active to church if not well at least you go there, spent time with your family and especially have a great time making yourself smile

I don't think that running back to her would be the healthiest thing to do. Learning to move on is a very important skill for us all to learn in life.

I feel you have quite a few different options in this situation. You can either "let her go, and wait to see if it is meant to be by her return" or you can take the risk by putting yourself out there to her. Show her the love you have for her. Another option would be, letting the relationship and your feelings go. As hard as it may be to accept the pain that comes with this option. It will eventually subside.

Whichever option you choose to pursue, until you move forward with it try to keep your mind, ears, eyes and hands occupied. Distraction helps a little, not 100%, at least until you know for sure what you want to do. Hope this helps, even if it's just a little bit.