my sister

she's just a stupid **** who lives to make me angry like how angry I get because of her scares me. I've had dreams about killing her. and I sometimes srsly believe that i will hurt her bad one of these days...... like she's gonna be here til April and idk how to avoid her like you don't understand I will ****ing kill her. Please help idk how to handle this

what sort of things does she do to make you so angry at her.

do you think their might be something deeper going on?

even people who are angry at others don't usually think about killing them

forgive me for asking this (and you don't even have to anser this) but are you currently stable?

excluding your sister- how are things?

Has she been acting like this with you since a long time? I mean, since you both were children.
How were you together at that age?

Or is her attitude recent? Do you have an idea why she is like that with you? How do you act yourself when you see her? And have you tried to speak to her?

Like Shattered Sanity says, it's important for us to know a bit more about your life, present and past, to understand things better and be able to give advices.

my sister drive me crazy too. sometimes i wish she never existed! i hate many things about her! but deep down i know that i cant live without her! i know, you too you love her! she is your sister after all. try to talk to her and tell her about the things that bother you in her behavior!

I write this with all sincerity and I urge the moderators to take a look. You have asked for help. The help I offer you is to call your local police and tell them what you have written here. There has been enough killing. If you cannot control yourself ask the police to help you.

I'm 63 yrs old. My oldest sister is 7 yrs older than me -- and she has TORMENTED me since my earliest memory. And I mean TORMENTED. There were times when she physically beat me up. Even when I was very small. My parents never believed me, because she did it when they weren't home, or couldn't see or hear me.

She left when I was 12 yrs old -- since then she has tormented me by mail. She started out nice -- so i thought she had changed. I was too young to know the psychological "tricks" she was using on me. See, she's a brilliant person, with a genius mentality. So she knew what she was doing.

I didn't figure things out until I got into therapy -- and by then I was seriously "sick." I have harbored alot of resentment against her since.

She continues to torment me -- when she comes home, she does the same things, even in front of my family -- and she TRIED to abuse my daughter, but my daughter was on to her! LOL

I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOING THRU. And there were times I wanted to kill my sister too, but where would that get me? In prison, that's where. So I have just plain cut off all contact with her -- and i TOLD her to just plain leave me alone because of what she's done to me. And I wrote her a letter telling her this!!

Perhaps if you wrote YOUR sister a letter telling her you're cutting off ALL contact with her. i hope she doesn't live in the same house! if she does, then avoid her at all costs. Tell your parents that she torments you. Write down ALL the things she does to you, with the date and time. DON'T do anything back to her even tho you want to. You must make sure the blame is ALL HERS. Do this for at least a week or two or more if you can stand it.
I wish you the very best sweetie. I know it's awful. God bless and please take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee