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Old Jun 13, 2013, 01:48 AM
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I'm always lonely...
Sometimes I could be surrounded by people but I'm still feeling lonely.
It's like there is something missing but I'm not sure what it is...

Does anyone else feel this way?
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Old Jun 13, 2013, 01:57 AM
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Hi

Yes I would say its normal if you are depro.
I embraced it, I now love being alone. In fact, I crave solitude. Too much isn't healthy and spending time interacting with others can do you good.

You can't be alone if you are good company yourself. Learn to like yourself...

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Old Jun 13, 2013, 02:03 AM
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Learn to like myself....
This is something I need to do.
I get so lonely that I just don't know what to do.
But thank you, I need to learn to like myself
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 01:30 AM
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I am picking this up from a song by the Samples. The lyrics might get mixed up but the essence is maintained -

"Can't love no one....can't love someone... can't love something....can't love anything....till you can love yourself.."

Try it. And you'll start being happy from within yourself
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 01:38 PM
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Remember most social situations are superfical, thus lack any real connections. Lower your expectations.
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 06:10 PM
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Hence the expression "Alone in a crowded room". I've felt it too but with me I kinda know why. I have a hard time connecting with people. First just with making social chit chat. I just don't know what to say. And, I find it hard to connect with people on any real or meaningful level. I've actually been accused of being stand offish or cold. Really the only way I get to connect with others if there is a shared interest or subject, like here on the forums
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 06:33 PM
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Feeling lonely in a crowd means (to me) that the person feeling lonely also feels that they don`t fit in. I have felt that way many times, not lonely exactly, just that I don`t fit in. It has never been a problem for me though.
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 06:49 PM
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I feel so lonely lately. I stopped talking to a lot of people, kind of isolated myself and tried to make new friends who turned out to be bad influences. It sucks.
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 07:12 PM
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Hence the expression "Alone in a crowded room". I've felt it too but with me I kinda know why. I have a hard time connecting with people. First just with making social chit chat. I just don't know what to say. And, I find it hard to connect with people on any real or meaningful level. I've actually been accused of being stand offish or cold. Really the only way I get to connect with others if there is a shared interest or subject, like here on the forums

Stop describing me.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 03:15 AM
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i feel it too, EVERYDAY
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 12:53 PM
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The inner-peace and happiness that we all need to find within ourselves, is what I've been told will help let go of the lonelyness! It doesn't matter what people say or do towards you, because its only a reflection of what they want for themselves and its their dream Read the book " The Four Agreements " by Don Miguel Ruiz. It teaches us how to live within the hell and still have your inner-peace and happiness. I myself have read the book 3 times and I have only got it through half of it, but plan on reading it over and over until I find my inner-peace and happiness from within
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 03:21 PM
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Same here
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 10:53 PM
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I stay lonely, too. Isolated and frustrated.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 04:28 AM
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I always feel this way.
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Old Jun 19, 2013, 04:42 PM
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