I'm feeling alone now. I will feel better later; maybe it was caused by drinking too much coffee. I miss my wife who died in november and my step-son is having a meltdown emotionally. He is diagnosed as Aspergers and refuses medicine. A note of encouragement would help me cope. Thanks for reading I'm on meds and just having a moment of grief. I'll be fine.

[sprik]

HUGS HUGS hope u feel better

[gma45]

Sorry you are feeling sad. I wish I had the right words to say....I don't so I will just send a big hug.. (((((((((((brookwest))))))))))) Take care my friend.

[wanderer201]

I will be praying for you. Hope things get better.

[Big Mama]

I am so sorry things are difficult for you and your son both. My son has aspurgers and it makes things a little more difficult sometimes. I want you to know I am thinking about you and hope you feel better son. the loss of your wife I know is difficult, but her memories keep her alive in your heart. She will always be w/ you. Keep your head up. ((((BIG HUG)))) and I mean it, cause I don't hug people.

[Monica Bing]

Originally Posted by brookwest

I'm feeling alone now. I will feel better later; maybe it was caused by drinking too much coffee. I miss my wife who died in november and my step-son is having a meltdown emotionally. He is diagnosed as Aspergers and refuses medicine. A note of encouragement would help me cope. Thanks for reading I'm on meds and just having a moment of grief. I'll be fine.

You're going to get through this. You're fighting through this for the people you love, who love you and need you in their lives. I admire you for your strength. For trying every day. For fighting your battle every day. For having truly loved.

You will heal through this. Please remember that.

[herethennow]

(((((brookwest))))) hold on to that rope!

[CakeCakeCake575757]

I understand how hard it is when a loved one dies. My advice? Think of how they wouldn't want you to feel sad and alone. Think of how it's a release for them, they don't have to go through all of that pain, whether it was illness or some sort of accident.

Don't pretend that it didn't happen. Embrace the good times you had together. It's okay to feel sad, but she is safe now. It's good to talk it out with counselors, and very important to talk about it with your son.

Try to feel happy once in a while. Go somewhere that puts your mind at rest, or go do something with friends.

Remember what you have. It's a good idea to keep a "graditute journal" to take a minute to appreciate life. Best of luck to you.
I'll be praying.