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Apr 02, 2014, 06:31 AM
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Could not find that mood - irritated will have to do.
This is a behavior trait I do not like about myself. Received a email this morning with a client I have been working with for almost a year now.We are both in the business of helping children that are struggling in school. I have admired many things about this client but...now is backing out of some of things the client has agreed to do for over a year now. Things like that happen in business...but my reaction...I get so pissed off. We still have other business dealings but I will never feel the same about this client. I do not forgive well and have a hard time hiding my attitude. I'm hoping writing about it and getting it out will help some. Currently struggling for $ for myself and for the business as well. Much pressure and it's a career I love!
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Apr 02, 2014, 09:05 AM
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I understand your struggle with letting go of anger toward others. I think you'll do fine as long as you concentrate on why you are working with this person. Sounds like you have a job with a good purpose. Keep up the good work.
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Apr 02, 2014, 06:01 PM
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Its great that you have a career that is fulfilling.
Did your client say why they are backing out? Was their reasoning for this change acceptable if you were in a better mood? Are you able to talk to them about the situation? |
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Apr 02, 2014, 07:25 PM
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany “Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge |
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Apr 03, 2014, 05:03 PM
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It sounds like you are much more professional in that relationship.
I would suggest, if you are going to address this with them, that you write out what you really want to say and that will hopefully get your frustrations out. But then edit it so that you maintain your professionalism. |
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