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Jan 14, 2015, 04:22 AM
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In september I tried to commit suicide by an overdose but it was a failed attempt cos I regretted it and decided to call the ambulance. But because of my actions my best friend no longer talks to me. We were super super close and now she's cut me off completely. I was in a psychiatric hospital in November and two months have now passed and it's definitely over between us. However it is tearing me apart I am so utterly sad and empty inside. She was my everything and now I have no one. She lives across my car park so i see her everyday but she never acknowledges me, doesn't pick up the phone etc. etc. How do I get over it??? I'm suffering really bad right now and my depression is coming back even though I'm on medication. I'm just hurting so so badly!!! I'm a single mum so it's a bit hard for me to go out and meet new people and all that and I have no job. I just sit at home all the time and miss my friend. I know it's unhealthy please please someone give me some advice on what to do cos I can soon not take it anymore.
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Jan 14, 2015, 04:58 AM
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You are strong never give up, you have a little one who looks up to you. As for your friend, I as a friend stand with my friends in their lows and highs, I don't give up when they need me the most. A true friend will not leave you when u need them. You don't ever have to feel lonely come on chat I'm always there or others will be there to talk to you. Hugs for u and the little one
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Jan 14, 2015, 06:57 AM
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I am so, so, very sorry this has happened to you. |
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Jan 14, 2015, 02:26 PM
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I had this happen to me before (although I'm not a single mum and such). I know it's hard, but what happened is hard for them too and they may not understand how to feel/respond so they might need time or space for awhile. I'm not sure how much space this person may need, but for now I would just focus on improving yourself and make new friends if possible. I'm sorry this happened to you, it's a very hard thing to go through
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Jan 19, 2015, 01:32 AM
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Thank you for your replies
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Jan 19, 2015, 09:54 AM
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When I was in my late teens early twenties - I had a very close friend. She was one of the only people in my life who really really showed me she cared. We enjoyed a great friendship - give and take on both sides. At one point I was very very depressed... she could not help - she told me with, great pain - that she could not help me - this was bigger than she could handle. I'm thinking, "I am so screwed up even the one person that loves me the most cannot handle it"......that is when I set my first appointment with a mental health therapist. It's been a long journey - but things are better.
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Jan 19, 2015, 04:00 PM
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Hola, Serenity!
I stick this link to an interesting article about lossing people. I have just lost someone and I was reading about it. I hope you will find it helpfull. Love and Loss in Relationships | The Emotionally Sensitive Person A hug! |
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Jan 19, 2015, 05:34 PM
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Let me say first that I am sorry that you are going through this. I know what its like to lose friends/relationships due to the actions caused by our various disorders. But truth be told, I firmly believe that if she was able to write you off this fast, she wasnt as invested in the friendship as you were and this may be for the better. I cannot tell you how to get over it, though, as that is something that takes time. And while it hurts like hell right now, as time goes on it will get easier. You learn new ways to keep yourself busy, you meet new people and you move on. It also could be that your ex friend doesnt know how to cope with someone going through what you go through and it was too much to handle. Maybe in the future you two will reunite and this will be water under the bridge. You never know what may happen in the future but do not let this break you. You are stronger than that, I know it. Best of luck to you.
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