Soooo PISSED!!!

What do you do when you feel so completely used and taken advantage of by people you thought were good friends? I bent over *** backwards to help these people in so many ways and they paid me back by ****ing my over. I did NOTHING but help them out. I've been nothing but nice to them. I cant figure out why they would do this. Like really, who the **** treats people like that? I can't let it go. I'm so pissed I feel like punching this ***** in the face or keying her car (which I helped her get among other things). I won't because I'm not a violent person, but I would really, really like too. I feel sick and I'm shaking I'm so angry.

I can relate to this all too well. There are moments where i imagine ripping her a new one and calling her out on her fake hypocritical bullhsit but i know i probably shouldn't.

I have to see this person almost every day.

Karma is a ***** is what i tell myself

And in reality it's their f*cking loss!!!

What do you do? Live and learn. Grieve the hurt, feel the anger, give it some time, and move on.

I wish I could say I believed that Karma existed, cause then I could maybe get over this a little, but in my experience, all the people who have been the worst in my life and affected me the worst, have never really had to suffer through anything. Quite the contrary, their lives seem to come up all roses and sunshine. Meanwhile, my life is **** (large in part because assholes like these two). Where is the karma in that? I would never and have never done to someone any number of the things these *** hats have pulled and they always come out on top. I can't seem to pull anything around, no matter how hard i try.

So sorry this happened to you. All people are not this way. Hang in there and just be a bit choosier next time. Big hug.

I thought I was being choosier this time. Idk. While in my head I know that in reality, not all people are this way, its just really starting to feel that all people really are just selfish using assholes. I don't make friends easily. I don't trust a lot of people. Now I don't even want friends anymore. I'm 100% ok with being that loser that can honestly say I have no friends. Everyone is out to use me or **** me over. Friendship is over rated. Like really, if I could survive, and didn't have children, I'd seriously go live in a cave in the mountains somewhere and NEVER talk to another living soul as long as I live and be completely at peace and happy with that.

I don't think the concept of karma is well understood by westerners. I've certainly never seen evidence of the 'instant karma' concept westerners hold so dear. Life seems to be much more mysterious than that.

I can say i never witnessed instant karma either but i do believe that people who specifically screw over and use people eventually encounter a person just like them.

Birds of the same feather flock together for the most part.

I have had loyal 18+ year friends that have never totally screwed me over and i have had the ones who have. One thing i can say is that the ones who screwed me in the end realized what they lost because when they needed that loyal friend they found themselves without.

I also don't think what you see is what it really is.

Perspective is everything.

I just believe that for the most part people pay for what they do. It may not be the way we expect.

It helps me to see things like this.

I think people are self serving in general.
Some just go further than others to fulfill their personal agendas and needs.

i know what you are going through, i've experienced it myself. when i had money years ago i had all the fake friends in the world, now i have only a few good ones, just because of money.