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I'm always alone, I've never had a friend. At this point I doubt I ever will. The most conversation I get out of anyone is them repeating what I said this morning, 4 minutes ago, or 5 years ago, something that doesn't even relate to what I tried to ask or say. I can't drive, so I can't go meet people, I try online but the result is usually a lot of nothing. Online people have real lives, and I can't expect them to be there when I need them. Every time anyone is nice to me it always means I am about to be into some trouble or other. Or they just want to use me for something. There's no hope. None. I'm never going to get out of this hole, I've given up.
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yep, same here bud.
wish I could offer some advice but I'm in a similar position. only thing I can say that may help you is to find a passion and dream, or if you have one dedicate more effort into it. its the only thing that keeps me going and gives me reason to live. doesn't have to be something dramatic, maybe start to learn a form of martial arts, or try your hand at writing a book/comic, sketching, anything that give you focus, purpose and fulfilment. with the amount of free time we have from lack of socialising, we can really dedicate ourselves to our goals and make them grow, hopefully into something special. |
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are you in school? college ? that's how I met some of my friends, you can do Meetups search online and u can find meetup by city or county. dating apps? u can select to search for people who want to make friends not dating. if u have a dog, dog park? even quick chit chat is better than none. I'm in the same boat, other than work (small 5 person office) I go home and that's it. kind of sucks . but there r outlets like the ones I listed. I met a few good people.
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fleury29,
ill be your friend,PM me if you feel comfortable! i understand what its like,i went through my whole life without a human friend,until i joined a autism group on facebook and found some amazing friends. just because its online doesnt mean you cant be friends.
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32 years old,ftm trans,asexual and aromantic,moderate classic autism,mild intelectual disability and a bunch of other stuff. |
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