Have you ever felt that you are beyond repair? Few years ago I would see myself successful socially and financially, and that hope allowed me to sacrifice a lot, but now I'm so desperate and hopeless because even though I have a relatively decent job (I could earn 3 times as much if I have the energy and motivation), I don't have anyone in my life to share it with or at least enjoy it with, and it's not going to happen any time soon. I feel so isolated that my whole life is meaningless. I see all these people enjoying their times together when I go out, while I'm so alone and sad. I'm just killing time these days and wishing something happens to me, and ends this suffering called life.

[LadyShadow]

I know what you mean! Don't lose hope, there is someone out there for everybody. I wonder about this thing called life often, and I often can't recover back to where I was. Great job, great looks, everything I had at one time. Now I am older, alone, and with no hope of a relationship in sight.

You are not alone!

[stewartmays1]

i feel the same but i need to get up and do something about it

i know how you feel. nothing really matters to me unless i have someone to share it with. i don't and won't for a very long time i'm afraid. sorry i don't have advice.

I am sorry you are struggling WS, please know it can get better, you are not beyond repair.

[BLUEDOVE]

Quote: "In order to love one's self,one must behave in
ways one can admire."
Courage,
BLUEDOVE

[LaKapsule]

Hello,

When we feel the empty in our life, we can see it like a opening of opportunities. For example, we can make a lot of things. Sometimes, the life needs a little of spice. Why don't you try to add it a few challenges ? Anyway what do you risk to lose ?

[TishaBuv]

No. We are not beyond repair. The human spirit and body has remarkable healing powers. I know you are rejecting medicine because your culture doesn't take MI seriously, but I think you should reconsider. A little antidepressant pill might change everything.

[avlady]

i agree unwilling at first but these mes have helped me tremendously.i used to feel like everyone else was happy and it seemed like i was watching a movie of other people having fun, but now it doesn't bother me.

[Lost_in_the_woods]

I understand wandering soul. Lost whatever we had long ago..then everything and everyone else followed. We keep trying to heal but just crumbs left of what was, could have been.

[xRavenx]

Originally Posted by Wandering Soul

Have you ever felt that you are beyond repair? Few years ago I would see myself successful socially and financially, and that hope allowed me to sacrifice a lot, but now I'm so desperate and hopeless because even though I have a relatively decent job (I could earn 3 times as much if I have the energy and motivation), I don't have anyone in my life to share it with or at least enjoy it with, and it's not going to happen any time soon. I feel so isolated that my whole life is meaningless. I see all these people enjoying their times together when I go out, while I'm so alone and sad. I'm just killing time these days and wishing something happens to me, and ends this suffering called life.

Yes, I also feel beyond repair. I've had enough, and I'm empty inside. Watching people around me and seeing that they are in loving relationships and so happy and free only makes that feeling even worse. Even when I do meet someone, I only seem to attract emotionally unavailable people......and I don't think I'm emotionally available either. I feel very isolated and that I'm on the outside looking in on everyone else. Where do I even begin? I'm lonely and feel I have a hole in my heart, and I try to fill it (sometimes with things that aren't good for me), but really I'm just trying to seek relief from the hell I feel.

It's hard to get by in a state of mind like this, but hang in there! Hugs!

((((xRavenx))))

((((Wandering Soul))))

[Imokay2]

Yes, I feel that way from time to time, I have learned that this feeling comes from a destructive cycle, it's like my brain is sabotaging me ! It's coming from the perspective of the little kid I was who learned to be very careful, walking on eggshells, and afraid of being something more than what the psychologically damaged caregivers who were teaching me told me I should be.
I learned that when I believe that voice I feel and act like that kid, I radiate that belief and it draws more of the same from everyone and everything around me.
If I believe that soon I'm treading water and drowning in it. I want to change, I am not that kid, I have my own life, no one is going to rescue me, only myself. Whether I have to be alone or not! It's better to be alone and healing and in charge of my own life, than enmeshed in another toxic relationship that I attract to me in my brokenness.
I'm sad sometimes, I'm lonely sometimes, but, I believe that I am working towards the day when I won't be, I'm working towards the day when I won't have this hanging over my head like a veil of shame that doesn't belong to me.
I'm learning new things that I am interested in, I'm trying to keep busy, I'm changing my life, one day at a time. And the day will come when someone who gets me, someone who is healthy and awake and alive will want to join me because that's what I want to be, that's what I'm growing to be.
I'm not digging up something the opposite of what you are saying, I'm saying, have strength- all of you. We're not alone, even if we are temporarily by ourselves. . . Look for the truth everywhere, anything that leads you to feel like you are less than infinitely full of possibilities is part of the lie.

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[handheart]

I understand how you feel i am also in this situation .We must have faith and never give up maybe god will help us also and will bring us in our life to change our loneliness .In my case i never give up i keep fighting no matter how hard it will be