[katydid777]

I woke up at 5 am, like i do most morningx, dreading the day. I feel like i walk on egg shells all day long. I don't want to say, or do the wrong thing durring my day, so i hopefully wont get any snied remarks. I go through my day, hoping it goes by fast, so i can go to my room, and not be around the ppl in my household. Does anyone else have this problem? It won't be long, and i will have to get up, and out of my sancuary, and i just heard someone get up, so now i must get up to this day.

[MickeyCheeky]

Sorry that you're feeling lke this Must be hard to live like this, day by day..

[avlady]

sorry for your situation,i get bad anxiety the first few hours after i wake up. coffee coffee coffee helps the grogginess away.

[Thunder Bow]

Can you move out of this, and leave this situation?

[Fuzzybear]

[katydid777]

Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

Sorry that you're feeling lke this Must be hard to live like this, day by day..

Some days are harder than others. Some days go the whole day with out a problem, but others are like the last 2 days, when i don't do anything right.

[katydid777]

Originally Posted by Thunder Bow

Can you move out of this, and leave this situation?

No,i can't leave, it's mostly my house, and i love it. I also love my husband, i just wish that he wouldn't treat me so bad with his words, and last, my brother doesn't have any where to go. All 3 of us are disabled, my husband just had major lumbar back surgery, he has 3 plates, 2 rods, and 6 screws, and last year we had to go to Florida to get him, 2 days before we got there he had a major fall bc he was drunk, about a week and a half to two weeks he started having major problems with the use of his arms, and legs. we thought it was bc of his drinking, but one evening he lost bowl control, and i had to clean him up. The next morning we took him to the ER, They checked him out, and found a couple cervical disc that needed to be replaced, and a splnal cord injury. The next morning he had emergency surgery. It has been over a year now, and he still has prob. with his arms, and legs. He is one abusers when i was young, and now he can't keep his remarks to him self. That leaves me with no way out, and i am to the extreme nonconfrontational.

[katydid777]

Originally Posted by avlady

sorry for your situation,i get bad anxiety the first few hours after i wake up. coffee coffee coffee helps the grogginess away.

I drink a cup of coffee every morning, but waking up isn't the problem. The problem is tht 2 men who also live here can't leave there mean comments to them selves.

[katydid777]

Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

Sorry that you're feeling lke this Must be hard to live like this, day by day..

Things can be very bad some days, then other days are ok.

[Thunder Bow]

He needs professional care right now. Have you looked into getting him home care? Also talk with his doctors about getting him some help for his depression. Also look into nursing home care for him. This mostly medical, and he needs help.

[katydid777]

Originally Posted by Thunder Bow

He needs professional care right now. Have you looked into getting him home care? Also talk with his doctors about getting him some help for his depression. Also look into nursing home care for him. This mostly medical, and he needs help.

He is getting medical care, and had home health care. Medically he is to the point where he can take care of himself. As far as mentally, he will never get help, he likes his life the way it is, and anything i would say would just cause me problens. He is so much like my parents were, and will probably die in the same way they did. My parents were both alcoholics, and died a few years ago; My dad was bed ridden, but still drinking. My oldest brother, this one that lives with us, and a younger sister, took care of my parents at home before they passed away.