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Okay well my adoptive mother has been like this ever since i can remember and its been getting worse now that my blood brother has been gone all these years so she cant make his life hell because obviously he isnt here. And i know some of you who've read my previous posts might be getting sick of this topic. So im sorry about that!
Anyways to make it quick her attitute towards me will be fake, annoyed, and completely oblivious to the fact i even exist. But then very occasionally she will smile at me and/or say something nice. I never can really figure out what i do during those times that makes it seem like she hates me. And she also ruins my relationship with other people. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() avlady, MickeyCheeky
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I sympathize. My own mother exhibited some mean behaviour too.
I suggest you talk to your school guidance counselor. As for diagnosing your mother, that is not what we do here. In the meantime seek out an adult you can talk to. If you have no one at school (are you in school? I'm not sure) then even your family doctor is a good start. Most countries have 1-800 help lines for young people. You would be able to talk with someone there. |
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Yes I am in school but the problem is Im homeschooling and the last time I went to the doctor was years ago. Thank you for your response.
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![]() We're with you ![]() |
![]() Anonymous50284, avlady
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i am sorry to hear you mom is not nice to you. she probably needs help herself!!
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Hi,
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Even before psychology was developed it was known from fairy tales how wicked the Evil step mother could. However the actual problems of mental illness depression and criminality was caused by the loss of abandonment and ill treatment of of by the biological mother. Today, most of night terrors and bad dreams in children are caused by fear of abandonment or loosing the mother figure. Your best option is to have a heart to heart talk with your adoptive mother and learn something about the reasons why you needed to have one. |
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![]() Oh and I dont really have any hate to my biological parents wherever they are... Well maybe my dad yes, because from what I've heard he wasnt a nice guy. I can see from my brother how he probably was abusive and angry. But that's not the point. I was too young to be mad or remember them. So i dont hate them. |
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