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Everyone seems to strive to get better, and to achieve goals, except me. All the people I have known have progressed in their lives, while I'm sitting here frozen in time. Maybe because I don't believe I have hope in this life, or even deserve to be here in the first place. I'm so tired of all of this.
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"I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
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I can relate
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Are you saying I need to do some biking?
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Yes the picture of the bicycle is my way of saying "Have hope", winter will not last forever, soon you can be outdoors and free again.
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I shoveled snow this morning and pushed heavy wet snow off the car, my fingers froze (couldn't find the gloves and it is well below freezing) but it did feel good anyway...
I know doing something rather than nothing helps, it is the difficulty is making the transition from here to there....(((((((hug)))))))
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You are intelligent. Now I know you have a great sense of humor. Not an answer, I know. But observations of the positive sort are what both of us need to hang on to. (As an adult....I built snowmen. And made snow angels.) |
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Thanks. You know, I've never built a snowman, although the snow here stays on the ground 5 months out of 12
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To be honest and we can take a poll here, I would think that you were someone who finds happiness in simple pleasures. And I would (and HAVE, in the past) smile at the thought. |
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How things work with me is like this: I get interested in things very quickly, but I lose interest even quicker. Part of the reason is that because I get frustrated very quickly when things don't work out or don't give the desired outcome or satisfaction. Also I think being alone and loneliness is another part of the reason. Doing things alone and for yourself is difficult to sustain and get boring after doing them a couple of times alone. I would feel more confident to go out and do things with someone. I admit that I don't get along with people easily, regardless of age, gender, or education (I didn't get along with other PhD holders as well). So, I'm in a way between a rock and a hard place. Both options aren't easy to embrace. But I digress, so, I will stop here ![]() Last edited by Anonymous37955; Mar 15, 2017 at 04:03 PM. |
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And that is a fun person. |
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Yes, probably I would think the same if I saw someone doing that
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It seems that way, though. For example, people here write that they are trying therapy, medications, CBT, ... etc (with struggles of course, but they are trying to do something to get better). I don't want to go to therapy or take medications, but I also don't have the willingness or energy to do anything. In other words, I don't want to get better. I mean of course I want, but any idea of change is aborted before it is born. I basically do nothing about my situation because I feel nothing is going to change me.
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I also make snow angels. Still, at 64, and this is a good snow for a snowman...
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