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Im so sick of this. I'm so tired of being hurt by her and being emotionally put down all the time. She's supposed to be my mother, all she does is hurt me. Im just sad and miserable with her. I wish she could JUST BE NICE. Why… what did I do to her? Why does she hate me. She has lied to me and manipulated me to her ways. I want her to treat me like she does her biological kids. I want things to be okay. But I guess it was never meant to be that way. I guess I deserve this. Thank you guys for listening to this pathetic rant. I'll be okay.
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Hi DaX: No... you don't deserve this!
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"I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
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Thank you Skeezyks for always being there for me the moment I joined this forum. I really appreciate that.
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I was once very much like you feel & it does not seem that long past, but there is opportunity for you believe me, there is hope & don't be frighten to ask for help! You will become stronger, just take small steps, don't make them too hard...look for your happiness in music & your inner strength will grow. You are not alone! Love Claire
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Hi DaX
I know it's got to hurt, feel real personal when it's aimed at you ![]() But the way I'm seeing it is that it's not personal, it's not your fault, it's a problem she has. And let's face it she hasn't even/isn't even willing to open her eyes to actually even seeing/knowing the real you........who you actually are.........she has blinded herself to really recognising and cherishing all your good qualities, your strengths, your achievements.......... And that isn't personal if she doesn't even know/isn't prepared to really know you ![]() That is her problem, not yours. And there's this distinction out there between biological and not biological but..........maybe for some (not all!!) foster/adoptive parents there may be a distinction.........they may act a bit differently...........but even with that in consideration her behaviours towards you are still wrong on every level........adopted or biological shouldn't come into it, there are no excuses...........it's something in her ![]() So I guess, it's about very clearly and matter-factly (as far as you can) putting your points across to her when she "has an issue", trying not to let her sucker you in or provoke you or hurt you in her responses, and "walking away" when you need to. As I'm sure you know, sometimes the more you say the more she tries to be hurtful or cruel.........try not to let her problems own you though, you deserve so much more than that ![]() I don't know whether some parts of her will ever change........I mean if she can treat a person (you!!) and that's not even taking into account the responsibility/relationship she has with you (!!) the way she does............then........well I can't see any change soon........... So..........maybe.........this..........and it doesn't need to be religious: Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. And I think deep down you know the difference in where she can't change right now ![]() And never forget that some people, like us, will/do see your true value, do care, do want the very best for you ![]() Alison |
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Hmm I dont know what job Im getting yet… But yes I guess Im a bit excited. And yes actually Im saving for a car.
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What is stopping you from seeing your family doctor? Check on this. Many locales in the world recognise 14 as the age for making one's own medical decisions. I thus encourage you to call up your - or a - family doctor.
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