Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Jun 04, 2023, 06:48 AM
moodyblue83 moodyblue83 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Aug 2021
Location: USA
Posts: 236
That's why I hate myself. I'm not overly emotional in the sense that I'm crying all the time. Or taking offense about something and become hysterical. I can't cry anymore because of the meds. My emotions are blunted. But I know I'm so angry at myself for being such a nothing. I can't make decision. I can't stop people pleasing. I'm a pushover . To try and combat this I have a quick temper. My prefrontal cortex ( the executive decision making part of my brain ) is underdeveloped. Everything is out of whack. I don't know how I've managed to live this long.
So my question is as overly emotional as I am , most of the world is 10x worse ! And I hate them because you can't talk to an overly emotional person !
__________________
Trying to Live in the Moment
Hugs from:
ArmorPlate108, Bill3, Discombobulated, Fuzzybear, giddykitty, Open Eyes, TheGal

advertisement
  #2  
Old Jun 04, 2023, 08:39 AM
TheGal TheGal is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Aug 2022
Location: The House
Posts: 1,208
Who in your life is overly emotional? Did something specific happen that set you off?

Maybe you're highly sensitive?

I just posted this. Maybe it would help?

7 Things Highly Sensitive People Need To Be Happy
Thanks for this!
ArmorPlate108, Fuzzybear, giddykitty, moodyblue83
  #3  
Old Jun 05, 2023, 01:16 AM
giddykitty's Avatar
giddykitty giddykitty is offline
Grand Poohbah
 
Member Since: Jan 2018
Location: United States
Posts: 1,671
sounds like you need to give yourself some love and a break. yes, i suppose it's frustrating and not a trait that we necessarily want, but just think how valuable it is that you actually have feelings when some people don't even seem to give a ****! there's a song lyric that always spoke to me, "i'm sensitive and I'd like to stay that way". it's like empathy. that's a good quality to have...even if it's a heavy burden. sounds kinda superheroic to me though!
hugs
__________________
Celexa (Citalopram) 20mg
Levothyroxine .75mg
Liothyronine 5MCG (2x daily)
Probiotics
And a whole slew of vitamin and herbal supplements.
Hugs from:
moodyblue83, moose260
Thanks for this!
Blueowl, moodyblue83
  #4  
Old Jun 05, 2023, 01:44 AM
mote.of.soul's Avatar
mote.of.soul mote.of.soul is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Jan 2018
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 13,796
Yes it's a very tricky painful world to navigate some/much of the time.🙏Hang in there bro. Seek out the peaceful things!
Hugs from:
moodyblue83
Thanks for this!
moodyblue83, TheGal
  #5  
Old Jun 06, 2023, 03:40 AM
Have Hope's Avatar
Have Hope Have Hope is offline
Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2017
Location: Eastern, USA
Posts: 9,566
So, really it comes down to seeing in others what you see within yourself that you do not like.
__________________
"Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination"

~4 Non Blondes
  #6  
Old Jun 06, 2023, 04:24 AM
Ameliabrown Ameliabrown is offline
New Member
 
Member Since: Jun 2023
Location: New York
Posts: 1
Every individual is different. Some people are practical, some are emotional and some people are more sensitive (over emotional). There is nothing wrong in being a an emotional person as we all are human beings and we have been called humans because we carry emotions, but there should always a fine balance of everything. You need to focus your energy on other things like power yoga, meditation, music, dance or whatever makes you happy. Keep you expectations limited and start loving yourself.

Start applying all these things which I have told you above, but one at a time and you will surely see positive results in yourself. These are tried and tested formula which I have apllied on myself as I used to be just like you 3 years back.

Sgtay happy & healthy my friend.
Hugs from:
moodyblue83
  #7  
Old Jun 08, 2023, 09:22 AM
moose260 moose260 is offline
Junior Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2023
Location: Secret
Posts: 14
I often wish I was less emotional and I know unemotional people who wish they felt more. But i'm glad that i feel human and can feel empathy so i don't think it's so bad to be emotional.
Hugs from:
Blueowl, Discombobulated, Fuzzybear, TheGal
Thanks for this!
Blueowl, Fuzzybear, TheGal
  #8  
Old Mar 28, 2025, 10:06 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,588
__________________
Hugs from:
moodyblue83
  #9  
Old Apr 06, 2025, 01:01 AM
Tart Cherry Jam Tart Cherry Jam is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Mar 2021
Location: California
Posts: 3,391
How did you find out that your prefrontal Cortez is underdeveloped?
__________________
Bipolar I w/psychotic features
Last inpatient stay in 2018

Lybalvi 10 mg
Naltrexone 75 mg


Gabapentin 1500 mg+Vitamin B-complex (against extrapyramidal side effects)

Long-term side effects from medications, some of them discontinued:
- Hypothyroidism
- Obesity BMI ~ 38
  #10  
Old Apr 07, 2025, 07:48 AM
moodyblue83 moodyblue83 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Aug 2021
Location: USA
Posts: 236
Quote:
Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam View Post
How did you find out that your prefrontal Cortez is underdeveloped?
I'm just saying that as a general statement. It's not like I had some kind of test or anything. I said that because there are many years in my life where I never used it ! I wasn't clear enough to be able to make decisions for myself. If you don't use it you lose it !
__________________
Trying to Live in the Moment
Hugs from:
Discombobulated, Tart Cherry Jam
  #11  
Old Apr 07, 2025, 03:50 PM
Tart Cherry Jam Tart Cherry Jam is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Mar 2021
Location: California
Posts: 3,391
Have you read the late Danny Kahnemann's "Thinking, Fast and Slow"?
__________________
Bipolar I w/psychotic features
Last inpatient stay in 2018

Lybalvi 10 mg
Naltrexone 75 mg


Gabapentin 1500 mg+Vitamin B-complex (against extrapyramidal side effects)

Long-term side effects from medications, some of them discontinued:
- Hypothyroidism
- Obesity BMI ~ 38
  #12  
Old Apr 24, 2025, 07:07 AM
moodyblue83 moodyblue83 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Aug 2021
Location: USA
Posts: 236
Quote:
Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
So, really it comes down to seeing in others what you see within yourself that you do not like.
With all do respect, I , deep down , cannot agree with that statement.
Sure , other people have many traits , or act in a certain way I guess , that I also portray. I like some and dislike others. I share some of those traits. When I look at someone else I'm not looking into a mirror. Let's say for example if someone reacted in a hysterical way , well I guess there were times I mirrored that action in a similar way. But then you have people who are passive aggressive, which I hate , but in no way ever act in such a childish manner. You know what I mean ? I think it's probably more or less a philosophical view. I agree that on occasion , yes , but it's just too simplistic a reply.
Thank you though, Have Hope
__________________
Trying to Live in the Moment
Reply
Views: 1018




Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Rather people find me overly cautious than overly naive rdgrad15 Relationships & Communication 4 Jan 23, 2018 07:24 PM
Being Hyper-Sensitive/Overly Emotional? Anonymous35004 Coping with Emotions 3 Sep 05, 2014 01:53 PM
overly emotional over nothing. unfuntionablytired Post-traumatic Stress 6 Oct 12, 2013 12:21 PM
Overly-Emotional/Overwhelmed Purple413 Coping with Emotions 3 Mar 28, 2013 06:24 AM
Overly emotional need help please! Thankful New Member Introductions 4 Sep 18, 2012 03:45 PM


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 03:42 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.