[Blah nlah]

Does it ever happen that something really small happened but you reacted very angrily?
My mom simply said some innocent thing but I got angry and screamed
She didn’t deserve it
But what made me scream like that?
Is it because of the trauma I faced?

[Fuzzybear]

Probably because of trauma. She has screamed at you before when you hadn't done anything wrong? (mine did....)

Maybe try to talk to her. If she is receptive.... (mine was not, but told all the family and friends that I was a ''monster'' And they believed her. I hope your mom isn't a covert Narcissist like mine was.

The step maternal unit is a Sociopath with Normotic features. UGH

[Blah nlah]

Broooo…. Same. I can’t believe how much I can relate.
I tried telling her. She turned my sister against me.
My mom hasn’t spread any rumours about me (yet) but she cribs about my dad to almost everyone she meets.
She once told my friend that my sister moved out because my dad is very controlling. (Not true. My mom is controlling.)
And yeah… she scolded me for something I didn’t do but I kept quiet. So yeah, how to deal with the pain of being falsely accused, I’m trying to find out.
By the way, I would like to know what you mean by “The step maternal unit is a Sociopath with Normotic features.”?

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Blah nlah

Broooo…. Same. I can’t believe how much I can relate.
I tried telling her. She turned my sister against me.
My mom hasn’t spread any rumours about me (yet) but she cribs about my dad to almost everyone she meets.
She once told my friend that my sister moved out because my dad is very controlling. (Not true. My mom is controlling.)
And yeah… she scolded me for something I didn’t do but I kept quiet. So yeah, how to deal with the pain of being falsely accused, I’m trying to find out.
By the way, I would like to know what you mean by “The step maternal unit is a Sociopath with Normotic features.”?

Step maternal unit (step witch) - completely without empathy, vicious temper, pathological liar, pathologically mean, screamed at me endlessly how ''abnormal'' and awful I was, how I ''should be punished all my life'' ....she on the other hand was, and is, completely ''normal'' in her view.